Can Bathing and Friction Lead to Pregnancy? Risks and Myths

Can taking a bath or rubbing against each other in bed lead to pregnancy?

Hello Doctor: 1.
My last menstrual period started on the 14th of last month, and today is the 6th.
Does this count as my fertile period? 2.
Today, my boyfriend and I went to a hotel to take a bath, during which we rubbed our genitals against each other in the water (without a condom).
There was no penetration and no ejaculation.
Is there a possibility of pregnancy? 3.
After the bath, we went to the bed and again only rubbed at the entrance (without a condom).
My vagina was moist, but not to the point of overflowing.
There was no penetration and no ejaculation, but later I helped him ejaculate by hand onto my body (on my stomach).
Afterward, I immediately wiped it off with a tissue and took a shower.
What is the likelihood of pregnancy in this situation? — Am I still a virgin? — 4.
About a year ago, my ex-partner inserted a little bit during my menstrual period, but it was late in the cycle, and there was no menstrual flow at that time.
After he inserted a little, I experienced a slight amount of bleeding, and he stopped immediately.
It was only a little bit of penetration.
Was that bleeding from my period or from the breaking of my hymen? (Prior to this, I had not had any insertion by anything, fingers, or genitalia.) 5.
Given this situation, do I count as a virgin? If so, does being a virgin lower the chances of pregnancy? Thank you for taking the time to read my questions, thank you!

yī, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2019/06/06

Dr. Huang Jianzhong reply Obstetrics and Gynecology

1.
My last period was on the 14th of last month, and today is the 6th.
Is this considered a dangerous period? Answer: It is important to know the menstrual history.

2.
Today, my boyfriend and I went to a hotel to take a bath.
During this time, we rubbed our genitals against each other in the water (without a condom).
There was no penetration and no ejaculation.
Is there a possibility of pregnancy? Answer: There is no possibility of pregnancy.

3.
After the bath, we went to bed and again only rubbed at the entrance (without a condom).
My vagina was moist, but not to the point of overflowing.
There was no penetration and no ejaculation, but later I used my hand to help him ejaculate on my body (on my stomach).
Afterward, I immediately wiped it off with a tissue and took a shower.
What is the likelihood of pregnancy in this situation? Answer: The likelihood of pregnancy is close to zero.
— Am I a virgin? —
4.
About a year ago, my ex-partner inserted a little bit during my period, but it was towards the end, and there was no menstrual blood at that time.
After he inserted a little, I bled slightly and then immediately stopped, meaning it was only a little bit of penetration.
Was that blood from my period or from the rupture of the hymen? (Before this, I had not had any insertion by anything, fingers, or genitalia.) Answer: How deep was the insertion?
5.
In this situation, do I count as a virgin? Answer: Whether someone is a virgin is usually determined by whether the hymen is intact.

6.
If so, is the likelihood of pregnancy lower for virgins? Answer: Virgins cannot become pregnant.

Reply Date: 2019/06/06

More Info

When it comes to understanding the risks of pregnancy related to bathing and friction, it's important to clarify some common myths and facts surrounding conception.
1. Understanding the Menstrual Cycle: Your menstrual cycle plays a crucial role in determining your fertile window. If your last period started on the 14th of the previous month, and today is the 6th, you are likely nearing the end of your cycle. The fertile window typically occurs around ovulation, which is usually about 14 days before your next period. Therefore, if your cycle is regular and lasts about 28 days, you may not be in your most fertile period right now. However, cycles can vary, and ovulation can sometimes occur earlier or later than expected.

2. Friction and Pregnancy Risk: Engaging in sexual activity that involves friction of the genitalia without penetration (especially without ejaculation) generally poses a low risk for pregnancy. Sperm needs to be deposited in or very near the vaginal canal for conception to occur. If there was no ejaculation and no penetration, the likelihood of pregnancy is significantly reduced. However, it is important to note that pre-ejaculate fluid can contain sperm, albeit in smaller quantities, which could theoretically lead to pregnancy if it comes into contact with the vaginal area.

3. Post-Activity Hygiene: After sexual activity, if ejaculation occurred outside the vagina and you promptly cleaned the area, the chances of sperm leading to pregnancy are further minimized. However, if any sperm were to remain on the skin and then come into contact with the vaginal opening, there is a slight risk, albeit very low.

4. Previous Sexual Experience: Regarding your question about whether you are still considered a virgin, the definition of virginity can vary culturally and personally. If you have had any form of penetration, even if it was minimal, some may argue that this affects your status as a virgin. The bleeding you experienced could have been due to a variety of factors, including the breaking of the hymen or simply a result of your menstrual cycle.
5. Pregnancy Chances for Virgins: If you identify as a virgin based on your experiences, it is important to understand that the likelihood of pregnancy is primarily determined by the presence of sperm in the vaginal canal, regardless of sexual history. The risk of pregnancy is not inherently lower for someone who identifies as a virgin; it is more about the specific circumstances of the sexual activity.

In conclusion, while the activities you described carry a low risk of pregnancy, it is essential to understand that no sexual activity is entirely without risk. If you are concerned about the possibility of pregnancy, consider taking a home pregnancy test if your period is late, and consult with a healthcare provider for personalized advice and information on contraception and sexual health. Open communication with your partner about sexual health and contraception is also crucial in managing risks and ensuring both partners feel comfortable and informed.

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