Ejaculation
I would like to ask the doctor, ever since I can remember, I have frequently experienced pre-ejaculation during masturbation, with only about 10% being actual ejaculation.
However, I believe my erection quality is normal.
When I engage in sexual intercourse with a woman, approximately 30% of the time I experience pre-ejaculation, though I'm not entirely sure since sometimes I use a condom.
I often feel like I can't hold back and ejaculate quickly (within a minute), but if I can endure a certain duration or sensation, I can last for a long time (even for several hours).
The average duration of my masturbation is significantly shorter than that of sexual intercourse.
Additionally, I have a lot of body hair and a strong sex drive, masturbating about once a day.
Therefore, I would like to know how I can improve the issue of pre-ejaculation.
Is it because the process isn't long enough to build up strength?
Nìmíng, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2019/07/12
Dr. Cai Zhuorong reply Urology
The process of ejaculation is related to the contraction of the urethral sphincter, the closure of the bladder neck, and the rhythmic contractions of the bulbospongiosus and ischiocavernosus muscles, rather than being insufficient in duration to accumulate strength.
Reply Date: 2019/07/12
More Info
Premature ejaculation (PE) is a common concern among men and can significantly impact sexual satisfaction and relationships. Understanding its causes and potential solutions is essential for those experiencing this issue.
Causes of Premature Ejaculation
1. Psychological Factors: Anxiety, stress, and performance pressure can lead to premature ejaculation. Many men may feel nervous about sexual performance, which can create a cycle of anxiety that exacerbates the problem.
2. Biological Factors: Hormonal imbalances, neurotransmitter levels, and certain medical conditions can contribute to PE. For instance, an overactive sympathetic nervous system may lead to quicker ejaculation.
3. Relationship Issues: Lack of communication or unresolved conflicts with a partner can also play a role in sexual dysfunction, including PE.
4. Physical Factors: Conditions such as prostatitis or other infections can lead to increased sensitivity and premature ejaculation.
5. Genetics: Some studies suggest that PE may run in families, indicating a possible genetic predisposition.
Solutions and Management Strategies
1. Behavioral Techniques:
- Start-Stop Technique: This involves stimulating the penis until you feel close to ejaculation, then stopping until the urge decreases. Repeating this process can help you gain better control over ejaculation.
- Squeeze Technique: Similar to the start-stop method, but involves squeezing the base of the penis to reduce the urge to ejaculate.
2. Pelvic Floor Exercises: Strengthening the pelvic floor muscles through Kegel exercises can help improve control over ejaculation. These exercises involve repeatedly contracting and relaxing the muscles used to stop urination.
3. Desensitizing Products: Over-the-counter creams or sprays that contain numbing agents can reduce sensitivity and help prolong the duration before ejaculation. However, it's essential to use these products as directed to avoid affecting your partner's experience.
4. Counseling or Therapy: If psychological factors are contributing to PE, speaking with a therapist or counselor can be beneficial. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) can help address anxiety and improve sexual confidence.
5. Medications: In some cases, doctors may prescribe medications that can help delay ejaculation. Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) are commonly used for this purpose, as they can increase the time it takes to ejaculate.
6. Communication with Partner: Open discussions with your partner about sexual preferences, desires, and concerns can help alleviate anxiety and improve intimacy, which may indirectly help with PE.
Lifestyle Modifications
- Reduce Anxiety: Engaging in relaxation techniques, such as deep breathing, meditation, or yoga, can help reduce anxiety levels, which may improve sexual performance.
- Limit Alcohol and Avoid Drugs: Excessive alcohol consumption and recreational drugs can impair sexual function and exacerbate PE.
- Healthy Lifestyle: Regular exercise, a balanced diet, and adequate sleep can improve overall health and sexual function.
Conclusion
Premature ejaculation is a multifaceted issue that can stem from various psychological and physiological factors. Understanding the underlying causes is crucial for effective management. If you find that self-help strategies are not sufficient, it may be beneficial to consult a healthcare professional for personalized advice and treatment options. Remember, you are not alone in this experience, and many men face similar challenges. Open communication with partners and seeking professional help can lead to improved sexual satisfaction and overall well-being.
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