Could you please provide more details about the prostate issues?
Hello doctor, when I hug and kiss my girlfriend, I get an erection and experience the secretion of pre-ejaculate fluid, which feels like it keeps coming.
Is there a way to improve this issue? It's quite bothersome to have wet pants.
Additionally, if my girlfriend touches my pre-ejaculate fluid through my pants and then touches her own genitals without inserting anything into her vagina, could she get pregnant?
Sunmer, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2019/11/03
Dr. Li Xinyi reply Urology
Based on your description, there seems to be no issue.
The secretion from the urethral glands tends to increase during an erection, which may be related to individual physiology.
If you have concerns, it is advisable to consult a urologist for an examination and discuss it with the physician.
As for the possibility of pregnancy, it can only be said that the likelihood is very low, but it cannot be guaranteed, as there is still a theoretical possibility.
Reply Date: 2019/11/03
More Info
Managing prostate issues, especially those related to fluid secretion and concerns about potential pregnancy risks, can be a sensitive topic. It's important to address both the physiological aspects of prostate health and the implications of sexual activity in your situation.
Firstly, the secretion of pre-ejaculatory fluid, or pre-cum, is a normal physiological response in males. This fluid is produced by the Cowper's glands and serves several purposes, including lubrication and neutralizing acidity in the urethra. It is common for men to experience this fluid during arousal, even with non-penetrative sexual activities such as hugging and kissing. If you find that this fluid is excessively secreted and causing discomfort or embarrassment, there are a few strategies you might consider:
1. Behavioral Techniques: Engaging in mindfulness or relaxation techniques may help manage arousal levels during intimate moments. Understanding your body's responses can help you gain better control over them.
2. Communication with Your Partner: Openly discussing your concerns with your girlfriend can alleviate some anxiety. Together, you can explore what feels comfortable and enjoyable for both of you without the pressure of excessive arousal.
3. Medical Consultation: If the secretion is bothersome and persistent, consulting a healthcare professional may provide insights. They can assess whether there are underlying issues, such as prostatitis or other prostate-related conditions, that might be contributing to the excessive fluid production.
Regarding your concern about the risk of pregnancy, it is important to clarify that pre-ejaculatory fluid can contain sperm, although typically in lower concentrations than ejaculate. If your girlfriend touches your pre-ejaculatory fluid and then touches her own genital area, there is a theoretical risk of sperm transfer. However, the likelihood of pregnancy occurring in this manner is quite low, especially if there was no direct ejaculation into the vagina.
To minimize any potential risk of unintended pregnancy, consider the following:
1. Use Protection: If you are concerned about pregnancy, using condoms during any sexual activity can significantly reduce the risk. This is also beneficial for preventing sexually transmitted infections (STIs).
2. Educate Yourselves: Understanding how pregnancy occurs can help alleviate some fears. Pregnancy typically requires sperm to be deposited in or near the vaginal canal, so non-penetrative activities carry a lower risk.
3. Consult a Healthcare Provider: If you have ongoing concerns about sexual health, fertility, or prostate issues, a healthcare provider can offer personalized advice and support.
In summary, while the secretion of pre-ejaculatory fluid is a normal part of male physiology, if it becomes a source of discomfort, exploring behavioral techniques and communicating with your partner may help. Regarding pregnancy risks, while there is a slight chance of sperm transfer through indirect contact, the overall risk remains low without direct ejaculation. Always consider using protection to mitigate any concerns about pregnancy and STIs. If you have further questions or if the situation persists, seeking professional medical advice is recommended.
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