Pregnancy Risks: Key Questions About Pre-Ejaculate and Safe Periods

Probability of Pregnancy

1.
On May 17, I engaged in intimate touching with my girlfriend.
At that time, neither of us was wearing pants, and we were holding each other closely.
I am unsure if any pre-ejaculate fluid came into contact with her external genitalia.
It is certain that there was no contact with the vaginal opening.
Is there a risk of pregnancy in this situation? My girlfriend's last menstrual periods were on February 1, March 7, and April 19.
Would May 17 fall within her safe period?
2.
I accidentally touched my own pre-ejaculate fluid (after urinating and showering, and I did not masturbate that day).
A few minutes later, I performed oral sex on my girlfriend and touched her genital area (the pre-ejaculate fluid on my hands had already dried).
I do not recall touching her vaginal opening, but I did make contact with it through oral sex.
Is there a possibility that I could have transferred sperm to her vaginal opening, leading to pregnancy?
3.
Should I take a pregnancy test? If her period arrives a few days later, can I rule out the possibility of pregnancy?
4.
I read online that a traditional Chinese medicine doctor stated that pre-ejaculate fluid released purely due to excitement does not contain sperm unless there has been a manual stimulation.
Is this accurate? Thank you, doctor.

Niming, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2020/05/20

Dr. Zhang Kunmin reply Obstetrics and Gynecology

Hello, based on your description, the chances of pregnancy are low.
However, as long as there are active sperm in the vagina during the ovulation period, there is still a possibility of pregnancy regardless of the method.
It is advisable to take appropriate contraceptive measures.
If necessary, you may consult a physician for evaluation.
If your period is more than a week late, it is important to check for pregnancy.
Thank you! Wishing you safety and health.
Dr.
Chang

Reply Date: 2020/05/20

More Info

Understanding pregnancy risks, especially in the context of pre-ejaculate fluid and the timing of sexual activity in relation to a woman's menstrual cycle, is crucial for anyone who is sexually active. Let's break down your questions and concerns regarding the potential for pregnancy.

1. Pregnancy Risk from Pre-Ejaculate: The risk of pregnancy from pre-ejaculate (also known as pre-cum) is a common concern. Pre-ejaculate can contain sperm, but the concentration is generally lower than in ejaculate. If you were engaging in sexual activity on May 17 without any barrier protection and there was contact with pre-ejaculate, there is a potential risk for pregnancy, especially if any fluid came into contact with the vaginal area. However, if you are confident that there was no direct contact with the vaginal opening, the risk is significantly reduced.
To assess whether May 17 falls within a safe period, we need to consider your girlfriend's menstrual cycle. If her last periods were on February 1, March 7, and April 19, we can estimate her ovulation. Ovulation typically occurs about 14 days before the next expected period. If her cycles are regular (which they may not be, given the variability), ovulation could be expected around May 3-4. If she had her period on April 19, she would likely be in a safer period by May 17, but this is not guaranteed due to the irregularity of her cycles.

2. Risk from Oral and Manual Stimulation: If you touched your urethral bulb (which can release pre-ejaculate) and then engaged in oral sex and manual stimulation, there is a slight risk of transferring sperm to the vaginal area. However, if the pre-ejaculate had dried and you did not directly touch the vaginal opening, the risk of pregnancy is minimal. Sperm need a moist environment to survive, and once dried, they are no longer viable.

3. Pregnancy Testing: If your girlfriend's period is delayed, it would be wise to take a pregnancy test. Most home pregnancy tests are accurate about a week after a missed period. If she gets her period, it is a strong indicator that she is not pregnant. However, if her cycles are irregular, a missed period alone may not be definitive.

4. Understanding Pre-Ejaculate: The assertion that pre-ejaculate does not contain sperm unless there has been prior ejaculation is somewhat misleading. While it is true that pre-ejaculate typically contains fewer sperm, it can still carry viable sperm if there was any residual sperm in the urethra from a previous ejaculation. Therefore, it is always best to err on the side of caution.

In summary, while the risk of pregnancy from the activities you described is relatively low, it is not zero. If there is any uncertainty or if your girlfriend's period is late, taking a pregnancy test is the best course of action. Additionally, if you are concerned about pregnancy risks in the future, consider discussing reliable contraceptive methods with a healthcare provider to ensure both partners feel secure and informed.

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