The sensation after the vasectomy was different from what I imagined, so I decided to reverse it?
This issue has troubled me for two years.
I have two little ones, and after I had a vasectomy, I felt a change in my ejaculation sensation, a loss of libido, and difficulty achieving erections.
My brain feels like it’s not sensing my penis properly, and I have a diminished sensation of orgasm.
I was shocked by the feeling of sperm rushing out.
I also feel a sense of sadness and a swaying sensation in my head.
I went back to see a urologist who suggested a reversal, stating that I would need to wait three months before I could consider that.
However, the sensation of orgasm is still absent, and my libido has completely disappeared.
The urologist said there’s nothing wrong with me and conducted a penile examination, confirming that I am fine.
They advised me to see a psychiatrist, and I took medication for autonomic nervous system dysregulation, which was said to be due to low dopamine and serotonin levels.
Can I really recover from this? Why doesn’t the vasectomy feel like the doctor said it would, returning to normal? Doctor, please help me.
After the reversal, I feel like it’s affecting my brain, and my brain has been in distress.
Could this be the cause? Can I get a vascular examination of my brain?
Hou Xiao An, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2020/06/01
Dr. Chen Jiansheng reply Urology
Vasectomy is a localized surgical procedure and has no direct correlation with sexual desire or erectile function.
Reply Date: 2020/06/01
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Understanding the changes that can occur after a vasectomy is crucial for addressing concerns related to sexual health and overall well-being. A vasectomy is a surgical procedure intended to provide permanent contraception by cutting and sealing the vas deferens, which prevents sperm from mixing with semen during ejaculation. While many men report no significant changes in their sexual function after the procedure, some individuals, like yourself, may experience a range of symptoms that can be distressing.
Firstly, it’s important to recognize that the sensations associated with ejaculation and orgasm can change after a vasectomy. Some men report a decrease in the intensity of orgasm or a change in the sensation of ejaculation. This can be attributed to the absence of sperm in the ejaculate, which may alter the physical sensations experienced during climax. However, the psychological impact of these changes can be significant, leading to feelings of anxiety, depression, or a sense of loss regarding one’s sexual identity.
Your concerns about decreased libido, erectile dysfunction, and the sensation of a smaller penis are also noteworthy. While vasectomy itself does not directly affect testosterone levels or the physical size of the penis, the psychological effects of the surgery can lead to performance anxiety or changes in sexual desire. It’s essential to understand that these feelings are not uncommon and can be influenced by various factors, including stress, anxiety, and even the fear of potential complications from the surgery.
The fact that you have been referred to a psychiatrist suggests that your healthcare providers are considering the psychological aspects of your experience. Conditions such as depression and anxiety can indeed affect sexual function and desire. Medications that target neurotransmitters like dopamine and serotonin can help alleviate these symptoms, but it may take time to find the right balance and dosage that works for you.
If you are still experiencing distressing symptoms after your vasectomy, it may be beneficial to seek a second opinion from a urologist who specializes in male sexual health. They can conduct a thorough evaluation to rule out any underlying physical issues that may be contributing to your symptoms. Additionally, discussing your concerns openly with a mental health professional can provide you with coping strategies and support as you navigate these changes.
Regarding your question about brain scans or vascular assessments, while it is unlikely that a vasectomy would directly affect brain function, if you are experiencing persistent headaches or cognitive changes, it may be worth discussing these symptoms with a neurologist. They can determine whether further investigation is warranted.
In summary, while many men do not experience significant changes after a vasectomy, those who do may face a combination of physical and psychological challenges. It’s essential to address both aspects to find a comprehensive solution. Open communication with your healthcare providers, exploring both physical and mental health avenues, and allowing time for adjustment can help you regain a sense of normalcy in your sexual health and overall well-being. Remember, you are not alone in this experience, and support is available.
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