Concerns About STDs After a Massage: What You Need to Know - Urology

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Concern about sexually transmitted infections (STIs)


Under the premise of confirming that I have no sexually transmitted infections (STIs) (I am unaware of whether the massage therapist has any STIs), I visited a Thai oil massage parlor for a massage (I am not certain if this establishment offers only massage services, but I did not request any services beyond massage).
Throughout the session, I wore paper underwear and did not remove it.
The massage involved the use of essential oils and included placing a hot towel on my back (as part of the massage process).
Additionally, during the massage of my inner thighs (groin area), there was slight contact with my genitals (which may have been unavoidable), and the massage extended to the coccyx area.
After the massage, I rinsed off in the establishment and noticed a stinging sensation on the skin around my coccyx.
Upon returning home, I observed some redness, which appeared to be a possible abrasion or scratch from a fingernail.
Furthermore, I had a higher frequency of bowel movements that day, which could also have contributed to skin irritation from excessive wiping with toilet paper.
I used the establishment's towels to dry off, and about 3 to 4 days later, I experienced itching on my back and felt small bumps.
Despite observing the skin condition, the itching persisted for another two days.
Upon looking in the mirror, I noticed extensive folliculitis on my upper back (with signs of redness and pus).
The following day, I promptly visited a dermatologist and began antibiotic treatment, and my folliculitis is gradually improving.
Aside from the potential concern of HPV from the towels, should I be worried about HIV, syphilis, or other STIs?

Niming, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2020/11/08

Dr. Du Shixi reply Urology


Hello: You may refer to the following risk levels - low-risk activities include masturbation and mutual masturbation, light kissing, mutual rubbing, and protected sexual intercourse with condoms; moderate-risk activities include deep kissing, oral sex, and withdrawal method; high-risk activities involve unprotected sexual intercourse and any actions that cause wounds or bleeding.
Based on your description, there may be a low level of risk.
Wishing you good health.

Reply Date: 2020/11/08

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When it comes to concerns about sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) after a massage, especially in a setting like a Thai massage parlor, it’s important to understand the risks involved and the nature of transmission for various infections.

Firstly, it’s crucial to note that STDs are primarily transmitted through direct sexual contact, which includes vaginal, anal, or oral sex. In your case, you mentioned that you did not engage in any sexual activities beyond the massage itself, and you were wearing paper underwear throughout the session. This significantly reduces the risk of transmission for most STDs, including HIV, syphilis, and gonorrhea, as these infections typically require direct contact with infected bodily fluids or mucous membranes.

However, there are a few points to consider regarding your experience:
1. Contact with the Genital Area: You mentioned that there was some incidental contact with your genital area during the massage. While this could theoretically pose a risk if the massage therapist had an active infection, the likelihood of transmission in such a scenario is generally low, especially if there was no direct sexual activity involved.

2. Skin Irritation and Folliculitis: The symptoms you described, such as the stinging sensation at the tailbone and the subsequent development of folliculitis (inflammation of hair follicles), are more likely related to skin irritation rather than an STD. This could be due to friction from the massage, the use of oils, or even irritation from the paper underwear. The fact that you observed redness and bumps on your skin suggests a localized skin reaction rather than an infection transmitted through sexual contact.

3. Hygiene Practices: The use of a towel and the washing after the massage are good hygiene practices. However, if there was any concern about the cleanliness of the towels or the massage environment, it’s always wise to be cautious. HPV (human papillomavirus) can be transmitted through skin-to-skin contact, but the risk in a massage setting, particularly when no sexual activity occurs, remains low.

4. Monitoring Symptoms: It’s good that you sought medical attention for the folliculitis and are currently on antibiotics. If the condition improves with treatment, it is likely not related to an STD. However, if you experience any new symptoms, such as unusual discharge, sores, or persistent pain, it would be prudent to consult a healthcare provider for further evaluation.

5. Testing for STDs: Given your concerns, it might be beneficial to get tested for STDs if you feel anxious or if you have had any potential exposure in the past. Most STDs can be effectively diagnosed through blood tests or swabs, and early detection is key to managing any potential infections.

In summary, while your experience at the massage parlor does raise some concerns, the risk of contracting STDs in this context appears to be low, especially since you did not engage in any sexual activities. The symptoms you are experiencing are more likely related to skin irritation rather than an STD. However, if you have ongoing concerns or symptoms, it is always best to consult with a healthcare professional who can provide personalized advice and testing options. Remember, practicing safe hygiene and being aware of your health is essential in reducing the risk of infections.

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