Overcoming Depression: Strategies for Emotional Control and Healing - Psychiatry

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I have been taking medication, but it hasn't had much effect on my emotions.
I often find myself complaining to my mom about various things.
During my therapy sessions, I struggle to manage my emotions and ended up leaving the counseling space provided by my therapist before the session was over, which led to my therapist closing the case.
I feel regretful about my actions every day, and even when I make decisions, I end up regretting my choices.
I often find myself using expletives or having thoughts of death.
I would like to ask you, doctor, what methods can help me gain better control over my emotions?

Han, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2020/11/18

Dr. Wang Yaoting reply Psychiatry


Hello: Emotional disorders have many contributing factors, including emotions, stress, environment, and physical illnesses.
It is recommended to first change unhealthy lifestyle habits, maintain a regular daily routine, and engage in exercise at least three times a week.
Additionally, practicing journaling and reading self-help books can be beneficial.
Regarding medication, it is advisable to discuss with your physician, as there are many medications available to treat emotional disorders.
If the medication is not effective, it may be worth considering an earlier change in medication or adjusting the dosage.
I hope this answers your question :)

Reply Date: 2020/11/18

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Overcoming depression and managing emotional control can be a challenging journey, especially when you feel overwhelmed by your feelings and experiences. It’s important to recognize that you are not alone in this struggle, and there are effective strategies that can help you regain control over your emotions and improve your overall mental health.

Firstly, it’s crucial to understand that depression can manifest in various ways, including emotional instability, irritability, and feelings of hopelessness. These symptoms can be exacerbated by external stressors, such as academic pressures or familial expectations, which you mentioned in your situation. It’s essential to address these underlying factors while also focusing on your emotional well-being.

1. Seek Professional Help: If you haven’t already, consider reaching out to a mental health professional, such as a psychologist or psychiatrist. They can provide a proper assessment and tailor a treatment plan that may include therapy and medication. It’s important to communicate openly about your feelings and experiences during therapy sessions. If you feel that your current therapist is not meeting your needs, don’t hesitate to seek a second opinion or switch therapists. Finding the right fit can make a significant difference in your healing process.

2. Medication Management: You mentioned that you are currently on medication but are not experiencing the desired effects. It’s vital to discuss this with your prescribing doctor. Sometimes, it may take time to find the right medication or dosage that works for you. Be patient with the process and keep an open line of communication with your healthcare provider about your symptoms and any side effects you may be experiencing.

3. Develop Coping Strategies: Incorporating coping strategies into your daily routine can help you manage your emotions more effectively. Here are some techniques to consider:
- Mindfulness and Meditation: Practicing mindfulness can help you stay grounded and present, reducing anxiety and emotional reactivity. Consider starting with guided meditation apps or classes.

- Journaling: Writing down your thoughts and feelings can be a therapeutic way to process your emotions. It can also help you identify triggers and patterns in your mood.

- Physical Activity: Regular exercise has been shown to improve mood and reduce symptoms of depression. Find an activity you enjoy, whether it’s swimming, walking, or dancing, and aim to incorporate it into your routine.

- Breathing Exercises: When you feel overwhelmed, practice deep breathing exercises to calm your mind and body. Inhale deeply through your nose, hold for a few seconds, and exhale slowly through your mouth.

4. Build a Support Network: Surround yourself with supportive friends and family members who can provide encouragement and understanding. Share your feelings with them, and don’t hesitate to ask for help when you need it. Sometimes, just talking about your struggles can alleviate some of the burden.

5. Set Realistic Goals: Break down your larger goals into smaller, manageable tasks. This can help reduce feelings of being overwhelmed and give you a sense of accomplishment as you complete each step. Celebrate your achievements, no matter how small they may seem.

6. Limit Negative Influences: Be mindful of the media you consume and the people you surround yourself with. Negative influences can exacerbate feelings of depression and anxiety. Seek out positive, uplifting content and relationships that inspire you.

7. Practice Self-Compassion: It’s easy to be hard on yourself when you’re struggling with depression. Practice self-compassion by treating yourself with kindness and understanding. Acknowledge that it’s okay to have difficult days and that healing is a process.

8. Emergency Plan: If you ever feel overwhelmed by suicidal thoughts or self-harm urges, it’s crucial to have a plan in place. Reach out to a trusted friend, family member, or mental health professional immediately. You can also contact a crisis hotline for immediate support.

In conclusion, overcoming depression and gaining emotional control is a multifaceted process that requires patience, support, and effective coping strategies. By seeking professional help, developing healthy habits, and building a strong support network, you can work towards healing and regaining control over your emotions. Remember, it’s okay to ask for help, and taking the first step is a sign of strength.

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