Is Premature Ejaculation Normal After a Long Break from Sex? - Urology

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It's been a long time since I've had sex, and now I experience premature ejaculation?


Is it normal for me to ejaculate quickly, like during my first time, after not having sex for a long time? After a few times, does it return to the usual duration?

Xiao Ming, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2020/11/26

Dr. Fu Shizhang reply Urology


The duration of time is influenced by many factors.
If it is consistently less than one minute, it is advisable to seek medical treatment.
Online consultations cannot replace an in-person examination and physical assessment by a physician.
If there is a medical condition, it is still recommended to visit a healthcare facility.

Reply Date: 2020/11/26

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Premature ejaculation (PE) is a common concern among men, and it can indeed occur after a long break from sexual activity. When a man has not engaged in sexual intercourse for an extended period, the body may react differently when sexual activity resumes. This can lead to a heightened sensitivity and a quicker ejaculation, which may feel similar to the experience of a man who is having sex for the first time.

Several factors contribute to this phenomenon. Firstly, the psychological aspect plays a significant role. After a long hiatus, there may be increased anxiety or excitement about the sexual encounter, which can lead to premature ejaculation. The anticipation and nervousness can heighten arousal, making it more challenging to control ejaculation.

Secondly, physical factors can also be at play. The body may become more sensitive after a period of abstinence. The nerves and tissues involved in sexual arousal may respond more vigorously, leading to quicker ejaculation. This is often a temporary condition, and many men find that after a few sexual encounters, their bodies adjust, and they regain better control over their ejaculation timing.

It's also worth noting that sexual performance can be influenced by various factors, including emotional connection with a partner, overall health, and even lifestyle choices such as diet and exercise. If a man is feeling stressed, tired, or unwell, it can also affect his sexual performance.

If premature ejaculation persists beyond the initial encounters, it may be beneficial to explore some strategies to help manage it. Techniques such as the "stop-start" method, where sexual stimulation is paused before ejaculation, or the "squeeze" technique, where pressure is applied to the base of the penis to reduce arousal, can be helpful. Additionally, practicing relaxation techniques and open communication with a partner can alleviate anxiety and improve sexual experiences.

In some cases, if premature ejaculation becomes a consistent issue, it may be worthwhile to consult a healthcare professional. They can provide guidance and possibly recommend treatments, which may include behavioral therapy, counseling, or medications designed to help delay ejaculation.

In summary, experiencing premature ejaculation after a long break from sex is not uncommon and can be attributed to both psychological and physical factors. With time and practice, many men find that they can regain control over their ejaculation. However, if the issue persists or causes significant distress, seeking professional advice is a prudent step.

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