Oral Sex Risks: Symptoms and Concerns About HIV

Q: Oral Sex Risks: Symptoms and Concerns About HIV

Hello： The risk of contracting HIV from a single oral sex encounter is approximately 1 in 10,000, which is generally a very low probability, but of course, it cannot be guaranteed that it is zero. <br>The symptoms you mentioned can indeed be indicative of acute HIV infection, but

Oral sex with mouth sores?

On November 1, I had oral sex without any other sexual activity, but I developed a sore in the middle of my tongue, which did not bleed.
On November 3, I experienced tonsillitis and saw a doctor.
By November 5, I had recovered.
On November 9, I had laryngitis and saw a doctor again.
I recovered by November 12.
On November 13, I developed bronchitis and consulted a doctor.
It showed slight improvement by November 16, but on November 18, the doctor said my cold was not yet resolved.
From November 23 to November 26, I had a persistent fever.
Taking antipyretics helped temporarily, but the fever returned after half a day.
I consulted a doctor and took medication, and after November 26, I no longer had a fever, and my cold had resolved.
On December 10, I developed a rash on my neck and shoulders that resembled pimples, which is still present.
I am very afraid of contracting HIV.
I have read a lot of information and keep reassuring myself that the risk of oral sex is low.
I am currently waiting for the 12-week mark to get tested, and I am considering buying a self-test kit to check before going for anonymous testing at the end of January.
I have been experiencing severe anxiety these days.
If I had anal sex, I would definitely use a condom, but I engage in oral sex less frequently.
I am wondering if I have an 80-90% chance of being infected.
Although symptoms cannot definitively indicate an infection, my symptoms seem quite pronounced, and I am very anxious.

Fandy, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2020/12/23

Dr. Lin Wufu reply Internal Medicine

Hello: The risk of contracting HIV from a single oral sex encounter is approximately 1 in 10,000, which is generally a very low probability, but of course, it cannot be guaranteed that it is zero.
The symptoms you mentioned can indeed be indicative of acute HIV infection, but similar symptoms can also occur with a common cold.
Currently, anonymous testing or standard testing can potentially yield a positive result as early as 3 to 6 weeks after exposure.
If you are very concerned, you can also go directly to an infectious disease clinic for a blood test.

Reply Date: 2020/12/23

More Info

When it comes to understanding the risks associated with oral sex and the potential for HIV transmission, it's important to consider several factors, including the nature of the sexual activity, the presence of any cuts or sores, and the health status of both partners involved. Based on your description, you engaged in oral sex on November 1, and subsequently experienced a series of health issues, including throat and bronchial inflammation, fever, and skin rashes.
Firstly, it's crucial to clarify that while oral sex is generally considered to carry a lower risk for HIV transmission compared to anal or vaginal intercourse, it is not risk-free. The risk of HIV transmission through oral sex can increase if there are open sores, cuts, or bleeding gums in the mouth of the person performing oral sex, or if the receiving partner has a high viral load of HIV. In your case, you mentioned having a sore in the middle of your tongue, which could potentially increase the risk of transmission, albeit the risk remains relatively low.

Regarding your symptoms, the series of infections and illnesses you experienced after the sexual encounter could be attributed to various factors, including viral infections unrelated to HIV. Symptoms such as fever, sore throat, and skin rashes can be indicative of many different conditions, including common viral infections like the flu or other respiratory viruses. It's important to note that while some symptoms can be associated with acute HIV infection, they are not definitive indicators of HIV.
The timeline you provided indicates that you are currently within the window period for HIV testing. The window period is the time following potential exposure during which HIV may not be detectable by standard tests. For most HIV tests, it is recommended to wait at least 3 months post-exposure for accurate results. However, some tests, such as the 4th generation tests, can provide reliable results as early as 2-4 weeks after exposure.
Given your anxiety and concerns about HIV, it is understandable that you are considering self-testing. While self-testing can provide some peace of mind, it is essential to follow up with a healthcare provider for confirmatory testing and counseling. Anonymous testing services are also available and can provide a supportive environment for discussing your concerns.

In terms of managing your anxiety during this waiting period, it may be helpful to engage in stress-reducing activities such as exercise, meditation, or talking to a mental health professional. Anxiety can exacerbate physical symptoms, so finding ways to cope with your feelings is crucial.
In summary, while the risk of HIV transmission through oral sex exists, it is generally lower than other forms of sexual activity. Your symptoms may not necessarily indicate an HIV infection, but it is essential to get tested to confirm your status. Continue to monitor your health, seek medical advice for any ongoing symptoms, and consider reaching out for support to help manage your anxiety during this time.

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