Struggling with Sleep: Frequent Dreaming and Solutions - Psychiatry

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I don't want to dream anymore?


Hello, Doctor You: I will start my tutoring classes in June, so I quit my job after the New Year to prepare well for next year's exam.
My life used to be very busy, and I would fall asleep as soon as I lay down.
Now that I have more free time, my sleep quality has actually worsened.
I dream almost every night, usually sleeping until around 9 AM, not taking a nap at noon, and going to bed around 1 AM.
Some people say that frequent dreaming is due to stress, but I believe my stress level is manageable since I haven't officially started the classes yet.
Additionally, I exercise and sweat for 30-40 minutes every night or drink milk, but I still can't improve my frequent dreaming.
Even when I wake up early to use the bathroom and go back to bed, I continue to dream.
What should I do? Are there any ways to improve this? Thank you!

stacey, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2003/04/19

Dr. You Shunjie reply Psychiatry


Your letter mentioned that you are troubled by dreaming during sleep.
Although there is some exam pressure, it should be manageable.
Sleep issues are indeed a complex subject; we still do not fully understand why we need to sleep! However, your situation—affected by exam stress (or perhaps other worries), your own expectations, and changes in your lifestyle (due to leaving your job)—can certainly lead to alterations in your sleep patterns.

If, as you stated, you are still getting over 7 hours of sleep each night, that is generally sufficient in terms of quantity.
However, if your sleep quality is affected by dreaming, it is important to consider the extent of this impact.
Is it affecting your daily alertness? Do you find yourself wanting to sleep during the day? Do you feel like you are not getting enough rest? If these issues are mild, there may be no need for concern, as you might adapt over time.

If the impact is significant, even affecting your mood (making you more sensitive or depressed), it might be worth consulting a psychiatrist.
There are many medications available that can improve sleep quality and stabilize mood, which you might want to consider.

Additionally, it may be helpful to adjust your perspective.
Exams are just one aspect of your life direction or goals, not the entirety.
You have many other aspirations to pursue, and you can enjoy life, nature, and family—so many beautiful things that you may have overlooked.
I hope this addresses your concerns.

Reply Date: 2003/04/19

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Dear Friend,
Thank you for reaching out with your concerns about sleep quality and frequent dreaming. It's not uncommon for individuals to experience changes in their sleep patterns, especially during transitions in life, such as preparing for exams or changes in daily routines. Let's delve into the factors that might be contributing to your situation and explore potential solutions.


Understanding Sleep and Dreaming
Dreaming is a natural part of the sleep cycle, particularly during the Rapid Eye Movement (REM) stage, which typically occurs several times throughout the night. While dreaming itself is normal, frequent and vivid dreams can sometimes indicate underlying issues with sleep quality. You mentioned that you are experiencing dreams almost every night, which can lead to feelings of fatigue upon waking. This could be attributed to several factors:
1. Sleep Architecture: Your sleep may be predominantly in lighter stages, such as NREM (Non-Rapid Eye Movement) sleep, which makes you more susceptible to waking up and remembering dreams. If you are not reaching deeper sleep stages, you may not feel rested.

2. Stress and Anxiety: Even if you perceive your stress levels as manageable, subconscious stress can still impact your sleep. The anticipation of upcoming responsibilities, like your classes, may be manifesting in your dreams.

3. Lifestyle Changes: With your recent transition from a busy schedule to a more relaxed one, your body may be adjusting to a new rhythm. Sometimes, a sudden change in routine can disrupt established sleep patterns.

4. Physical Activity and Diet: While regular exercise is beneficial for sleep, the timing and intensity can also play a role. Exercising too close to bedtime may increase adrenaline levels, making it harder to wind down. Additionally, while drinking milk can be soothing, consider the timing of your evening meals and beverages, as consuming them too late can lead to nighttime awakenings.


Recommendations for Improving Sleep Quality
Here are several strategies you can implement to help improve your sleep quality and reduce the frequency of dreaming:
1. Establish a Consistent Sleep Schedule: Aim to go to bed and wake up at the same time every day, even on weekends. This helps regulate your body's internal clock.

2. Create a Relaxing Bedtime Routine: Engage in calming activities before bed, such as reading, meditating, or taking a warm bath. Avoid screens (phones, computers, TVs) at least an hour before bedtime, as blue light can interfere with melatonin production.

3. Optimize Your Sleep Environment: Ensure your bedroom is conducive to sleep—dark, quiet, and cool. Consider using blackout curtains, earplugs, or white noise machines if necessary.

4. Limit Stimulants: Reduce or eliminate caffeine and nicotine, especially in the afternoon and evening. Alcohol may seem to help you fall asleep, but it can disrupt your sleep cycle later in the night.

5. Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: Incorporate mindfulness practices, such as deep breathing exercises or yoga, to help manage any underlying anxiety or stress.

6. Monitor Fluid Intake: Since you mentioned waking up to use the bathroom, try to limit fluid intake in the hours leading up to bedtime.

7. Consult a Professional: If your sleep issues persist despite making these changes, consider consulting a sleep specialist or a mental health professional. They can help assess any underlying conditions and provide tailored treatment options.


Conclusion
In summary, while dreaming is a normal part of sleep, frequent and vivid dreams can indicate issues with sleep quality. By implementing a consistent sleep routine, optimizing your sleep environment, and managing stress, you may find improvements in your sleep patterns. If these strategies do not yield results, seeking professional guidance can provide further insights and solutions tailored to your needs.

Wishing you restful nights and rejuvenating sleep!
Best regards.

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