Being pressed down during intercourse?
Two years ago, during intercourse in the woman-on-top position, I experienced significant pain at that moment, but there were no other unusual symptoms.
I find it difficult to achieve an erection when my girlfriend touches me, while I can get an erection more easily when watching adult films.
My erections during touching last longer, but I don't achieve a firm erection as easily as before.
When I do get an erection, it quickly subsides if there is no continuous stimulation or movement.
I can still engage in normal intercourse, but these issues persist.
Given that it has been so long, is there still a chance for treatment if I seek medical help?
Cheng, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2021/09/17
Dr. Xu Wencang reply Urology
Injury to the corpus cavernosum can cause bleeding, and a consultation at an outpatient clinic is advisable for examination.
Reply Date: 2021/09/17
More Info
Erectile dysfunction (ED) can be a complex issue, often influenced by both physical and psychological factors. In your case, the onset of ED following a painful experience during intercourse raises several considerations. It is important to understand that while a specific incident may trigger symptoms, the underlying causes can be multifactorial.
Firstly, the pain you experienced during intercourse could have created a psychological association with sexual activity that may contribute to your current difficulties. This is not uncommon; anxiety about performance or fear of pain can lead to a cycle of erectile dysfunction. When a man experiences pain during intercourse, it can lead to a heightened state of anxiety in future sexual encounters, which can further exacerbate the problem.
Secondly, the physiological aspect of erectile function is crucial. Erections are the result of a complex interplay of hormones, blood flow, nerve function, and psychological state. If you find that you can achieve an erection with stimulation but struggle during intercourse, it may suggest that your body is responding to the physical and emotional context of sexual activity differently than it did before. The fact that you can still achieve erections while watching pornography or during manual stimulation indicates that the physiological mechanisms are still intact, but the context of sexual activity may be affecting your response.
Moreover, the duration and firmness of your erections can also be influenced by various factors, including stress, fatigue, and overall health. If you notice that your erections are less firm or do not last as long as they used to, it may be worthwhile to consider lifestyle factors such as diet, exercise, and sleep, as well as any medications you may be taking that could impact erectile function.
In terms of treatment, there are several avenues to explore. If the issue is primarily psychological, therapy or counseling may be beneficial. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) can help address anxiety and improve sexual confidence. Additionally, couples therapy may also be helpful in addressing any relationship dynamics that could be contributing to the issue.
If the problem is more physiological, there are medical treatments available. Oral medications such as phosphodiesterase type 5 inhibitors (e.g., Viagra, Cialis) can be effective for many men. These medications work by increasing blood flow to the penis, facilitating an erection in response to sexual stimulation. It is essential to consult with a healthcare provider to determine the most appropriate treatment based on your specific situation and health history.
Furthermore, lifestyle modifications can also play a significant role in improving erectile function. Regular exercise, a balanced diet, maintaining a healthy weight, and managing stress can all contribute positively to sexual health. Avoiding smoking and limiting alcohol intake are also important, as these substances can negatively impact erectile function.
In conclusion, while your experience of erectile dysfunction following a painful incident during intercourse is concerning, it is important to remember that there are effective treatments available. Consulting with a healthcare professional who specializes in sexual health can provide you with a comprehensive evaluation and tailored treatment options. With the right approach, many men can regain their erectile function and improve their sexual health.
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