STD Risks from Kissing and Oral Contact in Massage Settings - Internal Medicine

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Half-service establishments, French kissing, and wet kissing?


Hello, doctor.
Recently, I visited a massage parlor where I engaged in several minutes of French kissing, wet kissing, mutual nipple licking, fondling, finger stimulation, and manual stimulation with massage oil, but I did not have sexual intercourse or oral sex.
A few years ago, I had a tooth extraction due to cavities and did not have it filled.
During the kissing, the other person's saliva and tongue entered my mouth.
I would like to know if there is a risk of HIV, syphilis, or other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in this situation.
Additionally, if I had a healing sore in my mouth at the time (like when I accidentally bite the inside of my cheeks during dry weather, resulting in white sores), does this increase the risk? (I sometimes experience bleeding when brushing my teeth.) Should I get tested given my circumstances? After the encounter, I realized this and borrowed mouthwash from the lady to rinse my mouth.

Tang, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2022/02/20

Dr. Liao Zhongxin reply Internal Medicine


1.
According to data provided by the Centers for Disease Control, there are three main routes of HIV transmission: A.
Sexual transmission: Engaging in oral, anal, or vaginal intercourse or other exchanges of bodily fluids with an HIV-infected individual carries a risk of infection.
B.
Blood transmission: (1) Receiving or coming into contact with blood or blood products contaminated with HIV.
(2) Sharing needles, syringes, or diluents with individuals who are HIV-positive and inject drugs.
(3) Receiving an organ transplant from an HIV-infected donor.
C.
Vertical transmission from mother to child: Infants can acquire HIV from their infected mothers during pregnancy, childbirth, or breastfeeding.
2.
From the above, it is understood that the risk of infection from a single sexual encounter is low; however, engaging in sexual activity more than once increases the risk of sexually transmitted infections (including HIV).
It is recommended that you consult and get tested at a nearby medical facility that offers HIV testing services.

Reply Date: 2022/02/20

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Engaging in intimate activities such as kissing, especially deep kissing, and other forms of sexual contact can carry certain risks for sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), including HIV, syphilis, and others. Understanding these risks is crucial for maintaining sexual health and making informed decisions.


Risks Associated with Kissing and Oral Contact
1. Kissing: Deep kissing can potentially transmit infections, particularly if either partner has open sores or bleeding gums. Saliva can carry certain pathogens, but the risk of transmitting HIV through saliva is extremely low. However, if there are cuts or abrasions in the mouth, the risk increases slightly, as these can serve as entry points for pathogens.

2. Oral Contact: Engaging in oral contact, such as mutual licking of body parts, can also pose risks. If either partner has an active STD, there is a potential for transmission. For example, herpes simplex virus (HSV) can be transmitted through oral contact if one partner has an active outbreak, even if the sores are not visible. Other STDs, such as gonorrhea and chlamydia, can also be transmitted through oral sex.

3. Injury and Infection: If you have a pre-existing condition, such as a dental issue or cuts in your mouth, this can heighten your risk. For instance, if you have a healing wound in your mouth, the risk of infection from contact with an infected partner increases. Similarly, if you have bleeding gums from brushing your teeth, this can also increase susceptibility to infections.


Specific Concerns in Your Situation
Given your description of the activities, here are some considerations:
- HIV Risk: The risk of contracting HIV through kissing is very low, especially if there are no visible sores or bleeding. However, if there are open wounds in your mouth or if the other person has HIV and there are cuts in their mouth, the risk could be slightly elevated.

- Other STDs: The risk of transmitting other STDs like syphilis, gonorrhea, or herpes through kissing or oral contact is more significant if either partner has an active infection. If you are concerned about potential exposure, it is advisable to get tested.

- Dental Issues: Since you mentioned having a dental issue from a past extraction, it’s wise to be cautious. If your mouth was not fully healed and you engaged in activities that could introduce bacteria or viruses, this could pose a risk for infections.


Recommendations
1. Testing: It is advisable to get tested for STDs, especially if you have concerns about potential exposure. Many STDs can be asymptomatic, so regular testing is a good practice for sexually active individuals.

2. Monitoring Symptoms: Keep an eye on any symptoms that may arise, such as unusual sores, discharge, or persistent pain. If you experience any of these, seek medical attention promptly.

3. Communication: If you engage in sexual activities with new partners, discussing sexual health openly can help mitigate risks. Knowing each other’s STD status can guide safer practices.

4. Hygiene Practices: After intimate activities, maintaining good oral hygiene, such as rinsing your mouth, can help reduce the risk of infections.

In conclusion, while the risks associated with kissing and oral contact in your described scenario are generally low, they are not negligible, especially with the presence of oral injuries. Regular testing and open communication with partners about sexual health are essential steps in managing and reducing the risk of STDs.

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