I feel completely unwell?
Hello doctor, a few months ago after an episode of masturbation, I experienced difficulties with penile erection, sexual pleasure, and ejaculation.
During that session, as I was about to climax, I engaged in diaphragmatic breathing, inhaled deeply, and then tensed my abdomen, which caused the urge to ejaculate to disappear.
When I attempted to masturbate a second time, I did the same thing and again lost the urge to ejaculate, but I did not feel any climax or ejaculation; my penis became flaccid.
Does this mean I have already ejaculated? I didn't feel much semen coming out, nor did I experience the sensation of climax.
Could this indicate that I have caused damage to the internal structures or nerve conduction pathways, or is there an issue with the vascular system? It has been several weeks, and doctors I have seen say it is unrelated to this behavior and that it is a psychological issue.
However, I am certain that everything changed after that episode of masturbation.
The state of my penis has made me feel extremely distressed, even contemplating suicide.
Please assist me, thank you.
Juewang, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2022/03/06
Dr. Liu Mingyue reply Urology
Hello: Based on my experience, the situation you mentioned is rare.
Please visit a large hospital's urology department, as some physicians specialize in sexual function.
Wishing you good health.
Reply Date: 2022/03/06
More Info
Erectile dysfunction (ED) can be a complex issue, especially when it follows a specific event such as masturbation. In your case, it seems that the experience during masturbation may have triggered a series of physiological and psychological responses that have led to your current difficulties. Let's break down the potential causes and solutions.
Understanding the Causes
1. Physiological Factors:
- Nerve Damage: The act of holding your breath and straining during masturbation could potentially affect the nerves involved in the erectile process. If there was any unusual pressure or strain, it might have temporarily impacted the nerve signals that facilitate erection and ejaculation.
- Blood Flow Issues: Erection is primarily a vascular event, meaning it relies on adequate blood flow to the penis. If there was any disruption in blood flow due to the way you were breathing or straining, it could lead to difficulties in achieving or maintaining an erection.
- Hormonal Changes: Stress and anxiety can lead to hormonal changes that affect libido and erectile function. If you are feeling anxious about your situation, this could further exacerbate the problem.
2. Psychological Factors:
- Performance Anxiety: After experiencing difficulties during masturbation, it’s common to develop anxiety about future sexual encounters. This anxiety can create a cycle where the fear of not being able to perform leads to further erectile dysfunction.
- Depression: Feelings of hopelessness or thoughts of self-harm are serious and can be linked to underlying depression, which can also contribute to ED.
Solutions and Recommendations
1. Consult a Specialist: It’s crucial to see a urologist or a sexual health specialist who can conduct a thorough evaluation. They may perform tests to assess blood flow, nerve function, and hormonal levels to rule out any underlying medical conditions.
2. Psychological Support: Given the emotional distress you are experiencing, it may be beneficial to speak with a mental health professional. Therapy can help address performance anxiety, depression, and any other psychological factors that may be contributing to your erectile dysfunction.
3. Lifestyle Changes:
- Healthy Habits: Regular exercise, a balanced diet, and adequate sleep can improve overall health and potentially enhance erectile function.
- Stress Management: Techniques such as mindfulness, meditation, or yoga can help reduce anxiety and improve mental well-being.
4. Medication: If deemed appropriate by your healthcare provider, medications such as phosphodiesterase type 5 inhibitors (e.g., Viagra, Cialis) may be prescribed to help improve erectile function.
5. Avoid Straining: In the future, try to avoid straining during masturbation or sexual activity. Focus on relaxation and breathing techniques that do not involve holding your breath or putting pressure on your abdomen.
Conclusion
Erectile dysfunction following a specific event can be distressing, but it is important to remember that it is often treatable. The interplay between physical and psychological factors means that a comprehensive approach is usually the most effective. Please seek professional help to address both the physical and emotional aspects of your situation. Your health and well-being are paramount, and there are resources available to help you navigate this challenging time.
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