Could you please provide more details about the herpes issue?
Hello, Doctor Du.
A few years ago, I had unprotected oral sex with a female partner.
About two years ago, I started experiencing occasional itching, redness, and white discharge on the inner side of the foreskin at the location of the glans corona.
A few times, it became severe enough that I noticed significant redness and swelling at the lower part of the foreskin opening after showering at night, but it would subside by the next day.
Yesterday, the swelling was as large as a small lip.
Two weeks ago, the foreskin opening was not swollen, but the inner side of the foreskin at the corona was red, swollen, and ulcerated.
The clinic doctor assessed that there is an 80-90% chance it is herpes, but was not entirely certain.
Yesterday, I noticed a small sore at the corner of my mouth and suspect that I may have had it for years without noticing.
Could this be genital herpes? Additionally, I have a few questions:
1.
I have researched extensively online and found that herpes is incurable and can recur throughout life, and even without symptoms, it can still be transmitted to female partners.
Does this mean I cannot have relationships or children with women? If a partner contracts genital herpes, there is a risk of transmission to the child during delivery.
2.
Last July, I had unprotected intercourse with my girlfriend.
At that time, I had no symptoms, and to date, she has not reported any issues.
Is it possible that she could have been infected but remains asymptomatic? I ended the relationship with her at the end of last year, but we still keep in touch, and I am very worried about having harmed her.
Mr. Chen, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2022/03/28
Dr. Du Shixi reply Urology
Hello:
1.
I have researched extensively online and found that herpes is incurable and can recur throughout life.
Even without symptoms, it can still be transmitted to sexual partners.
Does this mean I cannot engage with women or have children? If my partner contracts genital herpes, there is a risk of transmitting it to the child during delivery.
--> Herpes is not highly contagious when there are no blisters present, so it is important to maintain a strong immune system to prevent outbreaks.
Regarding having children, please consult with an obstetrician.
2.
Last July, I had unprotected intercourse with my girlfriend.
At that time, I had no symptoms, and she has not shown any signs of infection since then.
Is it possible that she could have been infected but not yet developed symptoms? I ended the relationship with her at the end of last year, but we still keep in touch, and I am very worried about harming her.
--> The risk of transmission is higher when blisters are present or just before an outbreak.
It is important to practice safe sex regularly.
Reply Date: 2022/03/28
More Info
Genital herpes, primarily caused by the herpes simplex virus (HSV), is a common sexually transmitted infection (STI) that can lead to various symptoms and concerns. Understanding its symptoms, transmission, and implications for relationships and childbirth is crucial for managing the condition effectively.
Symptoms of Genital Herpes
The symptoms of genital herpes can vary widely among individuals. Common symptoms include:
1. Itching and Burning: Many individuals experience itching or burning sensations in the genital area, which can be particularly bothersome.
2. Redness and Swelling: The affected areas may become red and swollen, as you described with the irritation around the glans and the inner foreskin.
3. Blisters and Ulcers: Painful blisters may develop, which can rupture and form ulcers. These lesions can be quite painful and may take time to heal.
4. Discharge: Some individuals may notice unusual discharge, which can be white or clear.
5. Flu-like Symptoms: During the initial outbreak, some may experience flu-like symptoms, including fever, body aches, and swollen lymph nodes.
In your case, the symptoms you described, including itching, redness, and the presence of white discharge, are consistent with genital herpes. The diagnosis made by your clinic physician, suggesting a high probability of herpes, aligns with these symptoms.
Transmission of Genital Herpes
Genital herpes is primarily transmitted through direct skin-to-skin contact during sexual activities, including oral, vaginal, or anal sex. Importantly, the virus can be transmitted even when no visible sores or symptoms are present, a phenomenon known as asymptomatic shedding. This means that it is possible for someone to be infected and unknowingly transmit the virus to a partner.
Concerns Regarding Relationships and Childbirth
1. Chronic Nature of the Infection: As you noted, genital herpes is a lifelong infection. While there is currently no cure, antiviral medications can help manage outbreaks and reduce the risk of transmission. Many individuals with herpes lead normal, healthy lives and can maintain intimate relationships. Open communication with partners about the condition is essential.
2. Impact on Childbirth: If a pregnant woman has an active herpes outbreak at the time of delivery, there is a risk of transmitting the virus to the newborn, which can lead to serious complications. However, if the mother has a history of genital herpes and is on antiviral medication, the risk of transmission can be significantly reduced. It is crucial for pregnant women with a history of genital herpes to inform their healthcare providers to ensure appropriate management during pregnancy and delivery.
Concerns for Your Previous Partner
Regarding your previous sexual partner, it is indeed possible for her to have contracted the virus without showing symptoms. Many individuals with HSV remain asymptomatic or have very mild symptoms that go unnoticed. It would be advisable for her to consult a healthcare provider for testing and guidance, especially if she has concerns about potential exposure.
Conclusion
In summary, genital herpes is a manageable condition, but it requires awareness and communication. If you suspect you have genital herpes, it is essential to follow up with a healthcare provider for confirmation and to discuss treatment options. Additionally, informing any sexual partners about your status is crucial for their health and safety. Regular check-ups and open discussions with healthcare providers can help you navigate this condition effectively, allowing you to maintain healthy relationships while managing your health.
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