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Consulting a physician: Whenever my husband enters the bathroom to take a shower, he starts talking continuously.
When he comes out, I ask him what he just said, and he claims he didn't say anything.
After several instances, or if I immediately ask him as soon as he starts talking, he seems surprised that he actually spoke but doesn't remember what he said.
He mentions that he has to concentrate hard to recall that he was talking, and the content consists of random words that flash through his mind.
This only happens when he is alone, and it occurs almost every day as soon as he goes in.
He usually does not talk to himself.
It does not affect his daily life, but it is a bit concerning.
Thank you, doctor, for your response.

Bào bào, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2022/08/25

Dr. Qiu Junda reply Psychiatry


Hello.
This situation is not uncommon based on experience, and it is not considered pathological.
As you mentioned, it does not affect daily life.
Sometimes, it may be that the individual recalls a previous situation and feels that they should have responded differently at that time, leading them to speak out loud without realizing it.
To an outsider, it may appear as if they are talking to themselves.
Personally, I believe it can be seen as a form of emotional release.

Reply Date: 2022/08/25

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The phenomenon you are describing regarding your husband’s behavior of talking while showering is quite interesting and can be understood through various psychological and psychiatric lenses. This behavior, often referred to as "self-talk," can occur in different contexts and can have various meanings depending on the individual and the situation.

Firstly, it’s important to note that self-talk is a common human behavior. Many people engage in self-talk as a way to process thoughts, emotions, or even to motivate themselves. It can serve as a coping mechanism, helping individuals to organize their thoughts or to relieve stress. In your husband's case, the fact that he only talks while in the shower may indicate that he feels a sense of privacy and safety in that environment, allowing him to express thoughts that he might not articulate in other settings.

From a psychiatric perspective, the occurrence of self-talk can sometimes be linked to certain cognitive processes. For example, when individuals are engaged in solitary activities, such as showering, their minds may wander, leading to spontaneous verbalization of thoughts. This can be a way for the brain to process information or emotions that may not be fully articulated in conscious thought. The fact that he is surprised by his own speech suggests that this is not a deliberate act but rather an unconscious manifestation of his thoughts.

It’s also worth considering the role of stress and relaxation in this behavior. The shower can be a place of relaxation, where the individual feels free from external pressures. This relaxed state may facilitate a flow of thoughts that are verbalized without the usual filters that one might apply in social situations. The water and the act of showering can create a soothing environment that encourages this kind of self-expression.

While this behavior does not seem to be impacting his daily life negatively, it’s understandable that it might cause some concern. If it were to escalate or if he began to exhibit other symptoms, such as significant changes in mood, behavior, or cognitive function, it would be advisable to consult a mental health professional. However, based on your description, it appears to be a benign form of self-expression.

In summary, your husband’s behavior of talking while showering can be seen as a form of self-talk that is likely linked to his cognitive processes and the context of the situation. It is a common behavior that many people engage in, especially in solitary situations where they feel comfortable. If it remains a harmless expression of thought and does not interfere with his daily functioning, it may simply be a unique aspect of his personality. However, maintaining open communication about any concerns you both may have is essential, and if either of you feels uneasy about it, seeking the advice of a mental health professional could provide further insights and reassurance.

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