Can I go to see a psychiatrist or psychologist on my own?
I'm a minor and I've looked up online that I need a parent to accompany me, so I can't go see a doctor by myself.
My family once took me to see a doctor, but when we got home, instead of concern, I was met with misunderstanding.
I heard things like "you deserve this" and "you're too reclusive." That's why I said I was fine, but in reality, I think I'm getting worse.
I feel like I want to jump out of my house.
I don't want my family to know what I'm going through because I would just be laughed at or scolded.
I don't have anyone to talk to.
Thank you, doctor.
Nìmíng zhě, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2022/09/13
Dr. Wu Menghuan reply Psychiatry
Hello: The feeling of not being understood by family is truly very lonely.
Although the Civil Code stipulates that minors over the age of seven have limited capacity for civil conduct, which means that medical treatment requires the consent of a legal representative; however, your body belongs to you, and without your permission, no one can harm you! It is important to affirm your courage and will to seek help.
If you really find it difficult to communicate with your family, it is advisable to first talk to a counselor at your school, or you can also call the Ministry of Health and Welfare's 1925 hotline for 24-hour free psychological counseling services.
Reply Date: 2022/09/13
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It's truly concerning to hear about your struggles and feelings of isolation. Mental health is a critical aspect of overall well-being, and it's important to address these feelings seriously. In the United States, the laws regarding minors seeking mental health care without parental consent can vary by state, but generally, there are provisions that allow minors to seek help under certain circumstances.
In many states, minors can access mental health services without parental consent if they are deemed mature enough to understand the treatment and its implications. This is often referred to as "mature minor doctrine." However, in most cases, parental involvement is encouraged, especially for ongoing treatment. That said, if you feel that involving your parents would lead to negative consequences, it may be worth exploring other options.
Here are some steps you can take to seek help:
1. School Counseling Services: Many schools have counselors who are trained to help students with mental health issues. They can provide a safe space for you to talk about your feelings and may be able to help you find additional resources.
2. Hotlines and Online Resources: There are numerous hotlines and online platforms where you can talk to someone anonymously. For example, the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (1-800-273-TALK) offers 24/7 support. You can also reach out to organizations like the Crisis Text Line by texting "HELLO" to 741741.
3. Community Health Centers: Many communities have health centers that offer mental health services on a sliding scale based on income. These centers often provide services to minors without requiring parental consent.
4. Therapists and Psychologists: Some therapists may be willing to see minors without parental consent, especially if you explain your situation. It might take some research to find someone who is open to this.
5. Support Groups: Look for local or online support groups for teens dealing with similar issues. Sharing your experiences with peers can help you feel less alone and provide you with coping strategies.
It's essential to prioritize your safety and well-being. If you ever feel like you might harm yourself, please reach out for immediate help. You can call emergency services or go to the nearest hospital. Your feelings are valid, and you deserve support and understanding.
In addition to seeking help, consider journaling your thoughts and feelings. Writing can be a therapeutic way to process emotions and may help you articulate your feelings better when you do find someone to talk to.
Lastly, remember that it’s okay to seek help. You are not alone in this, and there are people and resources available to support you. Your mental health matters, and taking the first step to reach out for help is a courageous and important decision.
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