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Thank you for taking the time to answer my questions.
I'm not sure if it's appropriate to ask here (but I really have no other way to inquire, and I don't mean to waste medical resources).
Can a minor go to see a psychiatrist alone? Will the school or parents be notified? My symptoms have persisted for quite some time.
I've become very passive; I can't muster any interest in things I used to enjoy.
I'm excessively sleepy and often have headaches.
Sometimes I feel extremely irritable and anxious to the point of wanting to hit the wall just to relieve some tension.
My mind can't stop dwelling on negative emotions, and I want to escape any concern from others.
I often get lost in my own fantasies and emotions.
Every time I try to pick myself up, I find it difficult to do so.
I initially wanted to seek help from those around me, but most of my family and friends are either depressed or have mental health issues.
Whenever I try to open up, I end up being seen as an emotional outlet for them, and compared to them, I feel like I'm just complaining without reason.
I don't really have suicidal or self-harm tendencies, but my emotions feel like a cycle; every time I think I'm feeling better, I quickly fall back into a low mood.
Can I see a doctor in this situation? Thank you!
Zhou Tongxue, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2019/06/27
Dr. Liang Sunyuan reply Psychiatry
Hello, Zhou: Emotional symptoms are influenced by the family environment, so seeking treatment alone during adolescence may be less effective.
It is recommended that parents accompany their children to appointments, as this allows professionals to assist in communication.
Wishing you all the best.
Reply Date: 2019/06/27
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Yes, minors can seek mental health care on their own, but the process can vary depending on the laws and regulations of the state or country in which you reside. In many places, minors have the right to access certain types of mental health services without parental consent, especially if they are experiencing significant distress or mental health issues. However, there are some important considerations to keep in mind.
First, it's essential to understand that while you may be able to seek help independently, many mental health professionals will encourage or require parental involvement, especially for ongoing treatment. This is because parents or guardians typically have the legal responsibility for minors and can provide necessary support and context for the treatment process. However, in cases where a minor is at risk of harm or experiencing severe mental health issues, some providers may prioritize the minor's immediate needs over parental involvement.
Regarding confidentiality, mental health professionals are generally required to keep your information private. However, there are exceptions, particularly if there is a risk of harm to yourself or others. If a therapist believes that you may be in danger or if there are concerns about your safety, they may need to inform your parents or guardians, or even authorities, depending on the situation. It’s crucial to discuss confidentiality with your therapist during your first appointment to understand what will be kept private and what might require disclosure.
Given your symptoms—feeling persistently low, losing interest in activities you once enjoyed, excessive sleepiness, headaches, irritability, and negative thought patterns—it’s clear that you are experiencing significant emotional distress. These symptoms can be indicative of depression or anxiety, and seeking help is a positive step. You mentioned that you feel like you cannot reach out to your family or friends for support, which can be isolating. It’s important to remember that you are not alone in this experience, and many people face similar challenges.
When you decide to seek help, consider the following steps:
1. Research Local Resources: Look for mental health clinics, therapists, or counselors in your area that work with minors. Many schools also have counselors who can provide support and guidance.
2. Make an Appointment: If you find a provider that seems like a good fit, call to make an appointment. You can explain that you are a minor seeking help and inquire about their policies regarding confidentiality and parental involvement.
3. Prepare for Your Visit: Before your appointment, it might be helpful to write down your feelings, symptoms, and any specific concerns you want to discuss. This can help you articulate your thoughts during the session.
4. Be Honest: During your appointment, be open about what you’re experiencing. The more honest you are, the better your therapist can understand your situation and help you.
5. Follow Up: If you find that the first therapist you see isn’t a good fit, don’t hesitate to seek another. Finding the right mental health professional can take time, but it’s worth it for your well-being.
Lastly, while it’s understandable to feel hesitant about seeking help, especially when surrounded by others who may also be struggling, your feelings are valid. You deserve support and care for your mental health. Seeking help is a sign of strength, and it can lead to significant improvements in your quality of life. Remember, you are not alone, and there are professionals who can help guide you through this challenging time.
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