STD Transmission: Common Concerns and Misconceptions - Urology

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Hello Doctor:
1.
I politely shook hands with a person suspected of having HIV.
My nails were cut very short, and there were some red areas between my fingers, but there was no bleeding.
Is that considered a wound? Can I contract HIV or other sexually transmitted infections from a simple handshake?
2.
I have a very sensitive constitution, and I quickly become aroused during intimate encounters.
I'm not sure how to overcome this.

3.
I'm unsure how to determine frequent urination, but I find myself needing to use the restroom often, and I always feel like my bladder isn't completely empty.
I'm not sure if this is related to psychological factors because I keep telling myself not to go to the bathroom.

4.
Should I consider seeing a psychiatrist? I am constantly afraid of interacting with strangers, fearing that I might contract a sexually transmitted infection.

danxin ziji hui fengdiao, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2022/11/15

Dr. Chen Jiansheng reply Urology


Please seek medical attention.

Reply Date: 2022/11/15

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Understanding STD Transmission: Common Concerns and Misconceptions
When it comes to concerns about sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), particularly HIV, it's important to clarify some common misconceptions and provide accurate information. Let's address your questions one by one.

1. HIV Transmission through Handshake: The concern about shaking hands with someone who is suspected of having HIV is understandable, especially if you have a small cut or abrasion on your hand. However, HIV is primarily transmitted through specific bodily fluids such as blood, semen, vaginal fluids, and breast milk. The virus does not survive long outside the human body, and casual contact like a handshake does not pose a risk for transmission. Even if you have a minor cut, the likelihood of contracting HIV through a brief handshake is virtually nonexistent, especially if there is no visible blood or open wound involved. It's crucial to remember that HIV cannot be transmitted through skin-to-skin contact or casual interactions.

2. Sensitivity During Intimacy: If you find that you are very sensitive during intimate moments, this is a common experience for many individuals. Sensitivity can be influenced by various factors, including emotional state, physical arousal, and even anxiety. To manage this sensitivity, consider focusing on relaxation techniques, such as deep breathing or mindfulness, which can help you feel more at ease. Communication with your partner about your feelings and preferences can also enhance your experience and reduce anxiety.

3. Frequent Urination and Psychological Factors: Frequent urination can be influenced by a variety of factors, including hydration levels, diet, and psychological aspects. If you feel the urge to urinate often but do not feel completely empty afterward, this could be related to anxiety or stress. The mind-body connection is powerful, and psychological factors can indeed affect physical sensations. It may be helpful to keep a diary of your fluid intake and urination patterns to discuss with a healthcare provider. This can help identify any underlying issues, whether they are physical or psychological.

4. Seeking Help from Mental Health Professionals: Given your feelings of anxiety and fear regarding contact with others, it may be beneficial to consult with a mental health professional. A psychologist or psychiatrist can help you explore these feelings and develop coping strategies. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) is particularly effective for anxiety and can help you reframe your thoughts about interactions with others. Additionally, support groups can provide a safe space to share your concerns and learn from others who may have similar experiences.

In summary, while it's natural to have concerns about STDs and personal health, understanding the facts can help alleviate unnecessary fears. HIV is not transmitted through casual contact, and feelings of anxiety can often be managed with the right support and techniques. If you continue to experience distressing thoughts or symptoms, seeking professional help is a wise step toward improving your mental and emotional well-being. Remember, taking care of your mental health is just as important as addressing physical health concerns.

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