HIV Risks After Marriage: Key Insights for Couples - Urology

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104 years ago, we had normal pre-marital HIV test results of 0.07 and 0.06.
Both my spouse and I had no sexual intercourse before marriage and were each other's first partners.
After several years, is it still possible for us to contract HIV? We have not had any extramarital affairs, but I did have a case of gonorrhea (vaginal) once.
Could this lead to an HIV infection?

Mei Mei, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2023/01/09

Dr. Du Shixi reply Urology


Hello: If there is no route of infection, transmission will not occur.
Wishing you good health.

Reply Date: 2023/01/09

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When it comes to understanding HIV risks within a marriage, especially after having undergone pre-marital testing, it's essential to consider several factors that can influence your risk of infection. Based on the information you've provided, both you and your spouse had normal HIV test results prior to marriage, and you have maintained a monogamous relationship since then. This is a strong foundation for minimizing the risk of HIV transmission.

Understanding HIV Transmission:
HIV (Human Immunodeficiency Virus) is primarily transmitted through specific bodily fluids such as blood, semen, vaginal fluids, rectal fluids, and breast milk. The most common routes of transmission include:
1. Unprotected Sexual Intercourse: Engaging in sexual activities without the use of condoms can increase the risk of HIV transmission, especially if one partner is HIV-positive.

2. Sharing Needles: This is a significant risk factor for those who use intravenous drugs.

3. Mother-to-Child Transmission: This can occur during childbirth or breastfeeding if the mother is HIV-positive.

Given that both you and your spouse tested negative for HIV before marriage and have remained faithful, the likelihood of contracting HIV is significantly low, provided that neither of you has engaged in high-risk behaviors since then.

Impact of Other STIs:
You mentioned having a history of gonorrhea (淋病). While gonorrhea itself does not cause HIV, having an untreated sexually transmitted infection (STI) can increase your susceptibility to HIV. STIs can cause inflammation and sores, which may provide an entry point for the virus if exposed. Therefore, it is crucial to ensure that any STIs are treated promptly and effectively to reduce any potential risk of HIV transmission.

Testing and Monitoring:
Even though you both had negative results before marriage, it is advisable to continue regular health check-ups, including HIV testing, especially if there are any changes in your sexual health or if either partner has new sexual partners outside the marriage. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) recommends that sexually active individuals get tested for HIV at least once a year, or more frequently if they have multiple partners or engage in high-risk behaviors.

Safe Practices:
To further reduce the risk of HIV and other STIs, consider the following practices:
1. Use Condoms: Consistent and correct use of condoms can significantly reduce the risk of HIV transmission and other STIs.

2. Regular Testing: Both partners should commit to regular STI screenings, especially if there are any concerns about exposure.

3. Open Communication: Maintain open and honest communication about sexual health, testing, and any concerns regarding potential exposure to STIs.

Conclusion:
In summary, based on your history of negative HIV tests, a monogamous relationship, and the absence of high-risk behaviors, the risk of contracting HIV is low. However, it is essential to remain vigilant about sexual health, get regular check-ups, and practice safe sex to maintain this low risk. If you have any further concerns or experience any symptoms, it is advisable to consult a healthcare professional for personalized advice and testing.

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