Risk of STDs After Oral Sex: What You Need to Know

Q: Risk of STDs After Oral Sex: What You Need to Know

Hello： As long as both parties do not have sexually transmitted infections, it is not possible to contract a sexually transmitted infection. <br>Wishing you good health.

The risk of contracting a sexually transmitted infection (STI) after oral sex?

Hello doctor, recently my girlfriend and I engaged in sexual activity (unprotected oral sex).
This was our first time for both of us, and we had no prior sexual experience.
The areas involved (mouth) did not have any wounds, and I did not ejaculate in her mouth.
However, during the act, she applied too much pressure with her hand, causing some friction on my penis, which was a bit painful the next day.
I would like to ask the doctor how likely it is for my girlfriend and me to contract a sexually transmitted infection (STI), as we are both very concerned about it.

Xin Xian Ren, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2023/02/11

Dr. Du Shixi reply Urology

Hello: As long as both parties do not have sexually transmitted infections, it is not possible to contract a sexually transmitted infection.
Wishing you good health.

Reply Date: 2023/02/11

More Info

When it comes to the risk of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) after engaging in oral sex, it's important to understand several key factors that can influence the likelihood of transmission.
Firstly, oral sex is generally considered to be a lower-risk sexual activity compared to vaginal or anal intercourse, but it is not without risks. Certain STDs can be transmitted through oral sex, including herpes, gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis, and human papillomavirus (HPV). The risk of transmission can vary based on several factors, including the presence of cuts or sores in the mouth, the presence of STDs in either partner, and the type of sexual activity performed.

In your case, since both you and your girlfriend are inexperienced and have no prior sexual history, the risk of having an STD is relatively low, especially if both of you have been tested and are free of infections. The fact that you did not ejaculate in her mouth further reduces the risk of transmission for certain infections. However, it is still possible for infections to be transmitted through pre-ejaculate fluid or through contact with mucous membranes.

The friction you experienced during the oral sex could lead to minor abrasions or irritation, which might increase the risk of transmission if either partner had an undiagnosed STD. If there were no visible sores or cuts in the mouth or on the genitals, and if both partners are healthy, the risk remains low. However, if either of you has any symptoms such as unusual discharge, sores, or persistent pain, it is advisable to seek medical attention and get tested.

It's also worth noting that some STDs can be asymptomatic, meaning that individuals may carry the infection without showing any signs or symptoms. Regular testing is important for sexually active individuals, especially if engaging in activities that may expose them to STDs.
In terms of your specific situation, if you are both feeling anxious about the possibility of STDs, it may be beneficial to consult with a healthcare provider. They can provide guidance on appropriate testing and help alleviate any concerns you may have. Testing for common STDs can often be done through blood tests or swabs, and many clinics offer confidential or anonymous testing options.

To summarize, while the risk of contracting an STD from oral sex is generally lower than from other forms of sexual activity, it is not zero. The best course of action is to maintain open communication with your partner about sexual health, consider regular testing, and practice safe sex to minimize risks in the future. If you have any lingering concerns or symptoms, do not hesitate to seek medical advice.

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