Obsessive thoughts and substance use issues?
Hello Doctor: I used to be less sensitive in terms of relationships, but I often engage in hypothetical thinking about whether my boyfriend might be attracted to certain female friends of ours.
One day, I noticed that my boyfriend searched for the girlfriend of one of his friends on social media (a girl I had previously speculated he might like).
After that incident, it seemed to trigger something in my mind, and I couldn't help but feel that it was unacceptable for him to be interested in a friend’s girlfriend (I kept equating searching with interest).
However, my boyfriend did nothing but search for that girl.
Since then, I feel like my trust in him has diminished, and I often become very sensitive; whenever he interacts with other females, I tend to overthink it and feel uncomfortable if he doesn’t share what just happened with me.
Later, my mom asked if we were planning to travel abroad for our honeymoon (we had originally discussed whether to go domestic or international), and as soon as my boyfriend got home, he immediately started looking up international travel options.
This made me feel jealous of my mom, thinking, “Why did you start planning just because she mentioned it?” The main issue is that I suddenly escalated the situation, feeling that being jealous of my mom was a terrible and abnormal thing, which led me to worry about the possibility of my boyfriend meeting my mom (even though I’m not actually afraid of that, this thought keeps lingering in my mind).
It feels like thoughts that contradict my values have emerged, and I want to adjust on my own but can’t seem to shake them off.
I would like to ask the doctor if this qualifies as obsessive thinking? My psychiatrist has prescribed me one tablet of Sertraline and half a tablet of Olanzapine.
After trying it twice, the doctor reduced the dosage and removed the Olanzapine, but it seems that I have relapsed when encountering certain triggers.
I would like to know if the reduction of Olanzapine could have such a significant impact? Is it common for issues to recur after reducing medication, especially if my thinking was more normal during the treatment?
Miss Hsieh, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2023/03/15
Dr. Wu Enliang reply Psychiatry
Online users have noted that it resembles obsessive thinking.
The impact of reducing medication with Anlifexor varies from person to person.
While thinking may appear more normal during medication, the likelihood of relapse after tapering off is also individualized.
It is advisable to discuss these issues further with your physician.
Dr.
Wu Enliang.
Reply Date: 2023/03/15
More Info
Your situation reflects a complex interplay of emotions, thoughts, and the impact of medication on mental health. Intrusive thoughts, particularly those related to relationships and self-worth, can be distressing and are often associated with anxiety and obsessive-compulsive tendencies. Let's break down your concerns and questions.
Understanding Intrusive Thoughts
Intrusive thoughts are unwanted and often distressing thoughts that can pop into your mind without warning. In your case, these thoughts seem to revolve around your boyfriend's interactions with other women and your feelings of jealousy or insecurity. This is not uncommon, especially in relationships where trust may be tested by external factors, such as social media interactions.
Your experience of feeling threatened by your boyfriend's search for a female friend on social media, and the subsequent feelings of jealousy and insecurity, can indeed be categorized as obsessive thinking. This type of thinking often leads to a cycle of anxiety, where one thought triggers another, creating a loop that can be difficult to break.
The Role of Medication
You mentioned that your psychiatrist prescribed medications, including Desvenlafaxine (known as Pristiq) and possibly another medication that was later reduced. These medications are typically used to treat depression and anxiety disorders. They work by altering the levels of neurotransmitters in the brain, particularly serotonin and norepinephrine, which can help stabilize mood and reduce anxiety.
1. Impact of Reducing Medication: When you reduce or stop taking medication, especially if it has been effective, you may experience a resurgence of symptoms. This is because your brain may have adjusted to the presence of the medication, and without it, the underlying issues may resurface. The fact that you noticed a return of intrusive thoughts after the reduction of your medication suggests that the medication was playing a significant role in managing your symptoms.
2. Is it Obsessive Thinking?: Yes, the thoughts you described can be considered obsessive in nature, particularly if they are persistent and cause you significant distress. The feeling of being unable to shake off these thoughts, despite recognizing them as irrational, is a hallmark of obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) or anxiety disorders.
Strategies for Management
1. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Engaging in therapy, particularly CBT, can be very beneficial. CBT helps individuals identify and challenge irrational thoughts and beliefs, replacing them with more balanced and rational ones. This can be particularly effective for intrusive thoughts and obsessive thinking.
2. Mindfulness and Acceptance: Practicing mindfulness can help you observe your thoughts without judgment. This can create a space where you can acknowledge the thoughts without letting them dictate your emotions or actions.
3. Communication with Your Partner: Open communication with your boyfriend about your feelings can also help. Sharing your insecurities and fears can foster understanding and support, which may alleviate some of the anxiety you feel.
4. Medication Management: It’s crucial to maintain an open dialogue with your psychiatrist about your experiences with medication. If you feel that reducing your medication has led to a significant decline in your mental health, it may be worth discussing the possibility of adjusting the dosage or exploring alternative medications.
Conclusion
Your experience with intrusive thoughts and the impact of medication is a common struggle for many individuals dealing with anxiety and obsessive thoughts. It’s important to remember that seeking help, whether through medication, therapy, or both, is a proactive step toward managing your mental health. Be patient with yourself as you navigate these challenges, and don’t hesitate to reach out for support from mental health professionals, friends, or family.
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