HIV Risks in Sexual Encounters: A Urology Perspective - Urology

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During the sexual encounter, I was the receptive partner, and I met the other person online, so I couldn't ascertain their background.
We used a condom throughout the anal intercourse, but during the act, they suddenly took a bottle from their bag, took a sniff, and quickly put it back.
I noticed a faint smell that resembled plastic, which made me suspect they might be using drugs.
Although we used a condom the entire time and I observed no unusual protrusions on their body, the whole process was very quick.
Just as I was thinking about stopping because I felt something was off, they ejaculated after about a minute of penetration.
They seemed a bit embarrassed due to the quick ejaculation and left without saying a word.

In retrospect, I feel this person was extremely unsafe.
However, considering that we used a condom throughout the anal intercourse and I later checked the condom for any breaks and found none, I wonder if there is still a risk of infection if they tampered with the lubricant beforehand.
If this person is a drug user, should I be very concerned about the risks associated with sexual activity? Thank you for your response, doctor.

Han, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2023/04/30

Dr. Du Shixi reply Urology


Hello: If there is a strong suspicion, it is advisable to administer medication in advance.
You can search online for hospitals and their outpatient hours to prevent infection.
Wishing you good health.

Reply Date: 2023/04/30

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When it comes to understanding the risks of HIV transmission during sexual encounters, especially in the context of anal intercourse, there are several important factors to consider. Your situation raises valid concerns, particularly regarding the unknown background of your partner and the potential for drug use, which can complicate matters further.

Firstly, it's crucial to acknowledge that while using condoms significantly reduces the risk of HIV transmission, it does not eliminate it entirely. Condoms are highly effective when used correctly, but they can fail due to breakage or slippage. In your case, since you confirmed that the condom did not break, the risk of HIV transmission is considerably lower. However, it’s important to remember that HIV can be present in bodily fluids, including pre-ejaculate, and if there was any compromise to the condom or if the lubricant used was contaminated, there could still be a risk.

Regarding your concern about the individual potentially using drugs, this is indeed a factor that can heighten the risk of HIV transmission. Individuals who engage in drug use, particularly intravenous drug use, may have a higher likelihood of being HIV positive. Additionally, drug use can impair judgment and lead to risky sexual behaviors, increasing the chances of exposure to sexually transmitted infections (STIs), including HIV.

You mentioned that the encounter was brief and that you felt uncomfortable with the individual’s behavior. Trust your instincts; if something feels off, it’s worth taking seriously. The fact that the encounter was quick and you were able to check the condom afterward is reassuring, but it’s still wise to monitor your health closely.

In terms of symptoms, HIV acute infection can present with flu-like symptoms, but many individuals may remain asymptomatic for weeks or even months. If you start experiencing symptoms such as fever, fatigue, swollen lymph nodes, or unusual rashes, it’s essential to seek medical advice and consider getting tested for HIV and other STIs.

As for the lubricant, if it was tampered with or if there was any exposure to bodily fluids that could have been contaminated, this could pose a risk. It’s advisable to use only sealed, reputable lubricants to minimize any potential exposure.

In conclusion, while your risk of contracting HIV from this encounter appears to be low due to the use of a condom, it is not zero. Given the circumstances, it would be prudent to get tested for HIV and other STIs after the appropriate window period, typically around three months for HIV. Additionally, consider discussing your concerns with a healthcare provider who can offer personalized advice and support. Remember, regular testing and open communication with sexual partners about health status are key components of maintaining sexual health.

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