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Hsieh Ching-Chou: Hello, I would like to ask you a question.
A classmate of mine, who lives at 28-2 or 6 Xiaozhuang Lane, Yingbei Li, Nantou City, has a tendency to become addicted to making phone calls.
He claims to be the current president, Chen Shui-bian, and refers to himself as the big boss.
I know that his father, Abo, works as a laborer at the Central District Office, and his sister, Xiufen, is employed there under a contract.
He enjoys broadcasting his matters to everyone.
Is he considered a problematic individual? Thank you for reading, and I look forward to your response!
Yang, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2003/12/17
Dr. Xie Qingzhou reply Psychiatry
Hello! If this student's behavior has clearly caused distress to those around them, it may be advisable for them to seek an evaluation at a psychosomatic medicine or psychiatric outpatient clinic, as they might be experiencing emotional or cognitive difficulties that require medical assistance.
Sincerely, Dr.
Hsieh Ching-Chou, Psychosomatic Medicine, Taoyuan Hospital, Ministry of Health and Welfare.
Reply Date: 2003/12/17
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The situation you've described regarding your classmate's compulsive phone use and identity issues raises several important points that can be understood through the lens of psychiatry. Compulsive behaviors, such as excessive phone use, can often be linked to underlying psychological issues, including anxiety, depression, or even personality disorders. In this case, your classmate's behavior of pretending to be someone else, such as the former president, may indicate a struggle with identity and self-esteem.
Compulsive phone use can manifest in various ways, including excessive texting, calling, or engaging with social media. This behavior can serve as a coping mechanism for individuals who may feel lonely, anxious, or disconnected from their real-life social interactions. In some cases, it can also be a form of escapism, where the individual seeks to create a persona that is more appealing or powerful than their actual self. This is particularly evident in your classmate's case, where he identifies himself as a "big boss" and the president, which may suggest a desire for recognition and validation that he feels he lacks in his everyday life.
From a psychiatric perspective, it is crucial to assess the underlying motivations for such behaviors. If your classmate is using these identities to cope with feelings of inadequacy or to escape from reality, it may be beneficial for him to seek professional help. A mental health professional can provide a safe space for him to explore these feelings and behaviors, helping him to develop healthier coping mechanisms and a more stable sense of self.
Moreover, the compulsive nature of his phone use and the need to broadcast his identity to others may also indicate a potential issue with social anxiety or a desire for attention. Individuals with social anxiety often struggle with feelings of inadequacy and fear of judgment from others, leading them to seek validation through alternative means, such as social media or phone interactions. This can create a cycle where the individual feels compelled to engage in these behaviors to alleviate their anxiety, but ultimately finds themselves feeling more isolated and disconnected.
In terms of intervention, cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) is often effective for addressing compulsive behaviors and identity issues. CBT helps individuals identify and challenge negative thought patterns and behaviors, allowing them to develop healthier coping strategies. Additionally, group therapy may provide a supportive environment where your classmate can connect with others facing similar challenges, reducing feelings of isolation and promoting social skills.
It's also important to consider the role of family and social support in your classmate's situation. Encouraging open communication with trusted friends or family members about his feelings and behaviors can help him feel less alone and more understood. If he is open to it, involving a mental health professional can further facilitate this process.
In conclusion, your classmate's compulsive phone use and identity issues may stem from deeper psychological concerns that warrant attention. Encouraging him to seek professional help could lead to a better understanding of his behaviors and ultimately help him develop a healthier relationship with himself and others. It is essential to approach this situation with empathy and support, recognizing that these behaviors are often a cry for help rather than mere attention-seeking actions.
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