Caring for a 90-Year-Old: Aging and Health Challenges - Geriatrics

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90-year-old father


My father is over 90 years old and has recently started to lose his appetite and has been feeling unwell.
He wants to lie down and sleep after sitting for just five minutes.
He has experienced weakness and fainting spells after getting up from the bathroom six or seven times, with his eyes rolling back, limbs becoming stiff, and requiring about ten minutes of patting to regain consciousness.
He has repeatedly gone to the emergency room, where doctors have only adjusted his blood sodium and potassium levels based on blood and urine tests, provided nutritional support, and either kept him hospitalized for a few days or sent him home the same day.
After returning home, his condition remains unstable; sometimes he can walk a few meters and sit for a few hours, while other times he feels tired after just a few minutes.
The family is unsure how to care for him.
Is this a normal aging process? What challenges might we face in the future? The doctor has scheduled follow-up outpatient visits, but my father sometimes lacks the strength to get out of bed.
How should the family take him to appointments? He does not have a tracheostomy, does not have cancer, and had a stent placed in his internal jugular vein about 15 to 20 years ago.
He has arrhythmia and heart failure; his weight is 70 kg, hemoglobin A1c is 6.5, blood pressure is around 105/80, oxygen saturation is between 89-99%, hemoglobin is 13.2, creatinine is 1.42, and total cholesterol is 130.
Thank you for your response.

CCC, 50~59 year old female. Ask Date: 2023/08/22

Dr. Liang Yinpan reply Geriatrics


Hello CCC: Your father is experiencing malnutrition and electrolyte imbalance due to poor appetite associated with aging, which is why he frequently requires hospitalization.
It is recommended to consider placing a nasogastric tube or a gastrostomy for feeding to ensure adequate nutrition, which will help restore his strength.
Gradually encouraging him to walk and be active will also aid in his recovery.
Currently, he can use a wheelchair for medical visits, and if family members are unavailable, a rehabilitation bus can be requested for transportation.
Changhua Hospital Geriatrics Department, Liang Yin-Pan, August 29, 2023.

Reply Date: 2023/08/22

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Caring for a 90-year-old individual, especially when faced with declining health, can be a daunting task for family members. Your father’s symptoms, including decreased appetite, fatigue, episodes of fainting, and general weakness, are indeed concerning and may be indicative of several underlying health issues that are common in elderly patients.
Firstly, it is important to recognize that aging is often accompanied by a variety of physiological changes that can affect health and well-being. As people age, their bodies may become less efficient at processing nutrients, leading to malnutrition, which can exacerbate existing health conditions. In your father's case, his decreased appetite and energy levels could be contributing to a cycle of weakness and instability.
The episodes of fainting and loss of consciousness after standing could be related to orthostatic hypotension, a condition where blood pressure drops significantly when standing up, leading to dizziness or fainting. This is particularly common in older adults and can be exacerbated by dehydration, medications, or underlying heart conditions. Given your father's history of heart issues, including arrhythmia and heart failure, it is crucial to monitor his cardiovascular health closely.

In terms of care, it is essential to ensure that your father is receiving adequate nutrition and hydration. If he is unable to eat enough by mouth, consider discussing the possibility of a feeding tube with his healthcare provider. This can help ensure he receives the necessary nutrients to maintain his strength and overall health. Additionally, regular hydration is vital, as dehydration can lead to confusion, weakness, and further complications.

Encouraging gentle physical activity can also be beneficial. While he may tire easily, short walks or even simple movements while seated can help maintain muscle strength and improve circulation. It is important to tailor any activity to his current capabilities and to consult with a physical therapist if possible.

Regarding medical appointments, if your father struggles to get out of bed, consider arranging for a home visit from a healthcare provider or utilizing telemedicine services. Many healthcare systems now offer virtual appointments, which can be a convenient option for patients with mobility issues. If in-person visits are necessary, using a wheelchair or arranging for transportation assistance can help make the process easier.

It is also advisable to keep a detailed log of your father's symptoms, medications, and any changes in his condition. This information can be invaluable during medical appointments, helping healthcare providers make informed decisions about his care.

Lastly, it is important to address the emotional and psychological aspects of aging. Isolation and depression are common among elderly individuals, particularly those with declining health. Engaging him in conversation, encouraging social interactions, and considering mental health support can significantly improve his quality of life.

In summary, caring for a 90-year-old with complex health needs requires a multifaceted approach that includes ensuring proper nutrition, hydration, gentle physical activity, and regular medical care. It is essential to communicate openly with healthcare providers and to advocate for your father's needs. By taking these steps, you can help improve his health and well-being during this challenging time.

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