Anxiety: A 12-Year-Old's Struggle with Overthinking Health Issues - Psychiatry

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Is this considered an anxiety disorder?


Hello, doctor.
I am 12 years old.
I have had a tendency to overthink since I was around 6 years old.
For example, I can turn a simple cold into thoughts of various serious diseases.
Now that I am older and have a smartphone, whenever I feel unwell, I tend to search for information on Google.
However, there are many articles that say things like "pay attention to minor symptoms, as they could be life-threatening!" As a result, I have learned a lot about the symptoms of serious diseases, but at the same time, I start to scare myself.
For instance, if I have back pain, I wonder if it could be an aortic dissection.
If I have a bad headache, I worry if it might be brain cancer.
I know that at my age, having brain cancer or an aortic dissection is extremely unlikely, but I just can't control my thoughts.
This issue has troubled me for a long time, and my family keeps telling me not to overthink.
I would appreciate your help.
Thank you.

son, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2023/09/19

Dr. Wu Kunhong reply Psychiatry


It is highly recommended that you seek psychiatric care as soon as possible.
Please trust a qualified professional to assess your condition and determine the appropriate course of action to ensure your mental and physical well-being.
Wishing you all the best.
Dr.
Wu Kun-Hong

Reply Date: 2023/09/19

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It's understandable that you're feeling overwhelmed by your thoughts and concerns about your health, especially at such a young age. Many people, regardless of age, can experience anxiety related to health issues, and it can be particularly challenging when you have access to a wealth of information online. The internet can be a double-edged sword; while it provides valuable information, it can also lead to unnecessary worry and fear, especially when you come across alarming articles about health conditions.

From what you've described, it sounds like you may be experiencing a form of health anxiety, which is not uncommon among young people. Health anxiety can manifest as excessive worry about having a serious illness, even when there is little to no evidence to support that concern. This can lead to a cycle of overthinking and distress, where you find yourself constantly searching for information and interpreting normal bodily sensations as signs of serious health issues.

It's important to recognize that while it's natural to be concerned about your health, especially when you're feeling unwell, the level of worry you're experiencing seems to be affecting your daily life and emotional well-being. Here are some strategies that might help you manage these feelings:
1. Limit Online Searches: Try to reduce the amount of time you spend searching for health information online. Instead of looking up symptoms, consider discussing any concerns with a trusted adult or healthcare professional who can provide accurate information and reassurance.

2. Practice Mindfulness: Mindfulness techniques, such as deep breathing exercises or meditation, can help calm your mind and reduce anxiety. When you notice yourself starting to worry, take a moment to focus on your breath and bring your attention back to the present moment.

3. Talk About Your Feelings: Sharing your thoughts and feelings with someone you trust, like a family member or a close friend, can be incredibly helpful. They can provide support and help you gain perspective on your worries.

4. Engage in Activities You Enjoy: Distracting yourself with hobbies, sports, or other enjoyable activities can help take your mind off your worries. Engaging in physical activity can also boost your mood and reduce anxiety.

5. Seek Professional Help: If your anxiety continues to interfere with your daily life, it might be beneficial to speak with a mental health professional. They can provide you with coping strategies and support tailored to your specific needs.

6. Educate Yourself: While it's important to limit excessive searching online, having some basic knowledge about health can be beneficial. Consider discussing health topics with a healthcare provider who can provide accurate and age-appropriate information.

7. Challenge Negative Thoughts: When you find yourself thinking about worst-case scenarios, try to challenge those thoughts. Ask yourself if there is evidence to support those fears or if they are based on assumptions.

Remember, it's okay to seek help and talk about your feelings. You're not alone in this, and many people experience similar struggles. Taking proactive steps to manage your anxiety can lead to a healthier mindset and a more enjoyable life. If you ever feel overwhelmed, don't hesitate to reach out for support. Your mental health is just as important as your physical health, and taking care of both is essential for your overall well-being.

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