Are you pregnant?
Hello, doctor.
My last menstrual period was from September 23 to September 29.
A few days ago, on October 7, I had sexual intercourse with my boyfriend, and it was both of our first times.
We used a condom throughout the entire process, but I experienced pain when only the glans was inserted.
My boyfriend did not ejaculate during the encounter.
Afterward, we checked the condom by filling it with water to see if it had broken; we only filled the first third (which showed no leaks), and the remaining two-thirds were not filled with water but visually appeared intact with no leakage.
Since it was our first time, I was quite nervous.
I would like to know if there is a possibility of pregnancy in this situation.
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Niming, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2023/10/11
Dr. Zhang Kunmin reply Obstetrics and Gynecology
Hello, the failure rate of using condoms correctly throughout is about 5%.
I recommend that if your period is a week late, you should take a urine test to check for pregnancy.
Thank you! Wishing you peace and health.
Dr.
Zhang
Reply Date: 2023/10/11
More Info
Based on your description, the likelihood of pregnancy in your situation appears to be quite low, but let's break down the factors involved to provide a clearer understanding.
1. Use of Condoms: You mentioned that you and your boyfriend used a condom throughout the sexual experience. Condoms are a highly effective form of contraception when used correctly. The typical failure rate of condoms is about 2% with perfect use, meaning that 2 out of 100 women will become pregnant in a year if their partners use condoms consistently and correctly. However, with typical use, which accounts for human error, this rate can rise to about 15%.
2. Checking for Breakage: After the sexual encounter, you checked the condom by filling it with water and found no leaks. This is a good method to check for integrity, but it’s essential to ensure that the entire condom is checked, as tears can occur at any point. Since you did not observe any breakage, this further reduces the risk of pregnancy.
3. Timing in the Menstrual Cycle: You mentioned that your last menstrual period was from September 23 to September 29. If we assume a typical 28-day cycle, ovulation would likely occur around October 7 to 14. Since you had sexual intercourse on October 7, this timing is close to your ovulation window, which is when you are most fertile. However, since you used a condom, the risk of pregnancy is still significantly mitigated.
4. Withdrawal Method: You noted that your boyfriend did not ejaculate during the intercourse. This is an important factor, as pre-ejaculate fluid (pre-cum) can contain sperm, but the risk of pregnancy is much lower if ejaculation does not occur inside the vagina.
5. Symptoms and Concerns: It’s common to feel anxious after your first sexual experience, especially regarding potential pregnancy. Symptoms like anxiety, changes in appetite, or fatigue can be attributed to stress rather than pregnancy. If you experience any unusual symptoms or if your period is late, consider taking a home pregnancy test for peace of mind.
6. Next Steps: If your period does not arrive as expected, taking a home pregnancy test about a week after your missed period will provide a more accurate result. If you have any doubts or concerns, consulting with a healthcare provider can help address your worries and provide further guidance.
In conclusion, while the risk of pregnancy in your situation seems low due to the use of a condom and the absence of ejaculation, it’s always wise to monitor your menstrual cycle and take a pregnancy test if your period is late. Remember that sexual health education is crucial, and understanding how to use contraceptives effectively can help you feel more secure in your sexual experiences.
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