Pregnancy Chances After First Sexual Experience

Pregnancy probability

Hello, doctor.
I would like to ask:
1.
I finished my period around October 19 and had sexual intercourse with my boyfriend on October 23 (both of us are first-timers).
Since it was our first time, we took it slow.
After a few thrusts, he pulled out (after pulling out, I noticed the condom had moved up a bit).
We used a condom the entire time and practiced withdrawal before ejaculation.
We also checked the condom by filling it with water to ensure there were no holes, and there were none.
I would like to know if this could result in pregnancy.
2.
After our first sexual encounter, I felt a bloated sensation in my abdomen, as if there was gas inside.
It improved a few days later.
Is this normal? What should I pay attention to?

Niming, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2021/10/29

Dr. Wu Xianghui reply Obstetrics and Gynecology

1.
For pregnancy concerns, please perform a home pregnancy test or visit a gynecologist for examination and evaluation four weeks after your most recent sexual intercourse.
2.
The menstrual cycle can be affected by various psychological and physiological factors.
If your period is more than two months late, it is recommended to consult a gynecologist for examination and evaluation.

Reply Date: 2021/10/29

More Info

It's completely understandable to have concerns and questions about your first sexual experience, especially regarding the potential for pregnancy and the physical sensations that accompany it. Let's address your questions one by one.

1. Pregnancy Risk After First Sexual Experience: Based on your description, it sounds like you and your boyfriend took precautions by using a condom and practicing withdrawal (pulling out) during intercourse. If the condom was intact (as you confirmed by testing it with water) and there was no ejaculation inside the vagina, the chances of pregnancy are very low. Condoms are highly effective when used correctly, and since you both are inexperienced, it’s good that you are being cautious. However, it’s important to remember that no contraceptive method is 100% effective, and there is always a small risk of pregnancy with any sexual activity.

2. Physical Sensations After First Sexual Experience: Feeling bloated or having a sensation of gas in your abdomen after your first sexual experience can be quite normal. This can be attributed to several factors, including anxiety, tension, or even the physical act of penetration itself. Your body is adjusting to a new experience, and it’s not uncommon to feel some discomfort or unusual sensations afterward. If the feeling persists or is accompanied by severe pain, it would be wise to consult a healthcare provider to rule out any underlying issues.

Additional Considerations:
- Communication with Your Partner: Open communication with your boyfriend about your feelings and experiences is crucial. Discussing what feels comfortable and what doesn’t can help both of you navigate this new territory together.
- Relaxation Techniques: If you find yourself feeling anxious about sexual activity, consider practicing relaxation techniques such as deep breathing or engaging in foreplay that makes you feel comfortable and aroused. This can help ease tension and make the experience more enjoyable.

- Lubrication: Sometimes, discomfort during intercourse can be alleviated with the use of a water-based lubricant. This can reduce friction and make penetration more comfortable.

- Understanding Your Body: It might be beneficial to explore your own body in a private setting. This can help you become more familiar with your anatomy and what feels pleasurable, which can ease anxiety during sexual activity with a partner.

- Post-Intercourse Care: After sexual activity, it’s a good idea to urinate to help prevent urinary tract infections (UTIs), which can occur after intercourse. Additionally, maintaining good hygiene is important.

- Monitoring Your Cycle: Since you mentioned your menstrual cycle, keep track of it. Understanding your cycle can help you identify when you are most fertile and can assist in family planning if that becomes a consideration in the future.

- Consulting a Healthcare Provider: If you have ongoing concerns about pregnancy or sexual health, consider scheduling an appointment with a healthcare provider. They can provide personalized advice and may recommend a pregnancy test if your period is late or if you have any other concerns.

In summary, while the risk of pregnancy from your described encounter is low, it’s essential to remain informed and proactive about your sexual health. Open communication with your partner, understanding your body, and seeking professional advice when needed can help you navigate this new chapter in your life with confidence.

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