Is Your Penis Softening After Ejaculation? When to See a Doctor - Urology

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Hello doctor, I have recently noticed that my penis quickly becomes flaccid after ejaculation.
Is there something wrong with my genitalia? I used to be quite firm after ejaculation, so should I see a doctor about my current condition?

Ken, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2004/02/06

Dr. Huang Chikai reply Urology


Hello Ken, if there are no other symptoms besides this phenomenon, then there is no problem and you do not need to see a doctor.
Wishing you happiness! Dr.
Huang Chih-Kai, February 12, 2004, 3:00 PM.

Reply Date: 2004/02/06

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Experiencing a rapid loss of erection after ejaculation, commonly referred to as post-ejaculatory detumescence, is a normal physiological response. However, if you notice a significant change in this pattern, especially if it is accompanied by other symptoms, it may warrant further investigation.

When you ejaculate, your body undergoes a series of hormonal and physiological changes. The release of hormones such as prolactin can lead to a temporary decrease in sexual arousal and erection strength. This is a natural process, and many men experience a softening of the penis after ejaculation. However, if you previously had a firmer erection post-ejaculation and have recently noticed a change, it could be indicative of several factors.

1. Psychological Factors: Stress, anxiety, and depression can significantly impact sexual performance. If you are experiencing increased stress or anxiety, it may affect your ability to maintain an erection after ejaculation. Consider whether there have been any changes in your life that could be contributing to these feelings.

2. Physical Health: Various health conditions can affect erectile function. Conditions such as diabetes, hypertension, and cardiovascular disease can lead to erectile dysfunction. If you have any underlying health issues or risk factors, it may be beneficial to discuss these with your doctor.

3. Hormonal Changes: Testosterone levels naturally decline with age, and low testosterone can lead to changes in sexual function, including difficulties in maintaining an erection. If you are concerned about hormonal imbalances, a healthcare provider can perform tests to evaluate your hormone levels.

4. Medications: Certain medications can have side effects that impact erectile function. If you have started any new medications or changed dosages, it may be worth discussing this with your doctor.

5. Lifestyle Factors: Lifestyle choices such as smoking, excessive alcohol consumption, and lack of physical activity can also contribute to erectile dysfunction. Assessing your lifestyle and making healthier choices can have a positive impact on your sexual health.

If you find that this issue persists or is accompanied by other symptoms such as pain, discomfort, or changes in libido, it is advisable to consult a healthcare professional. They can conduct a thorough evaluation, which may include a physical examination, blood tests, and a review of your medical history.
In summary, while a softening of the penis after ejaculation can be a normal occurrence, a significant change in this pattern, especially if it causes concern or is associated with other symptoms, should be discussed with a doctor. They can help determine if there is an underlying issue that needs to be addressed and provide guidance on potential treatment options or lifestyle changes to improve your sexual health. Remember, open communication with your healthcare provider is key to addressing any concerns you may have about your sexual health.

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