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Perineum, masturbation, and condom issues?


1.
During masturbation, the perineum becomes very hard with any exertion.
If I do not exert myself, I can last 10-20 minutes, but as soon as I exert, I immediately feel the urge to ejaculate, and even with an erection, exerting the perineum can lead to immediate ejaculation.
Could frequent masturbation lead to perineal weakness or erectile dysfunction, or could there be other reasons? (Masturbation frequency is once a day.)
2.
After achieving an erection during masturbation or sex, if I change positions and do not continue stimulation for too long, I easily lose my erection.
What can I do to improve this? (I have very short sleep hours, usually sleeping from 2 AM to 4 AM, and I do not exercise regularly.
Is this significantly affecting my condition? If I rely on improving my sleep schedule and exercising, how long might it take to see recovery?)
3.
After foreplay before sex, I am very hard, but as soon as I put on a condom, I lose my erection.
If I do manage to penetrate, I ejaculate very quickly.
What could be the reason for this? P.S.
I was a premature baby and have hypospadias (1-1.5 cm).
I may need to shake a few times to clean properly when using the restroom.
Could this impact my sexual function? Thank you for your answers, doctor.

Xiao Kang, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2024/02/15

Dr. Liu Mingyue reply Urology


Hello:
1.
During masturbation, the perineum becomes very hard as soon as I exert force.
If I do not exert force, I can last 10-20 minutes, but as soon as I exert force, I immediately feel the urge to ejaculate.
Even with an erection, exerting force on the perineum can lead to immediate ejaculation.
I would like to know if frequent masturbation can lead to perineal weakness or erectile dysfunction, or if there are other reasons? (Masturbation frequency is once a day) --- It should not make a difference.
2.
After getting an erection during masturbation or sex, if I change positions and do not continue stimulation for too long, it is easy to lose the erection.
What can be done to improve this? (I have very short sleep, usually sleeping from 2 AM to 4 AM, and I do not exercise often.
Is this severely affecting me? How long would it take to recover by improving my routine and exercising?) --- It may require more attention to lifestyle, diet, and exercise.
Losing an erection without stimulation may be a habit formed from frequent stimulation.
3.
After foreplay before sex, I am very hard, but as soon as I put on a condom, I lose my erection.
If I do manage to penetrate, I ejaculate very quickly.
What could be the reason for this? --- This is mostly likely a habit formed from DIY practices.

P.S.
I am a premature baby and have hypospadias (1-1.5 cm).
I may need to shake a few times to clean myself when using the restroom.
Could this have an impact on my sexual function? --- It should not.
Wishing you good health.

Reply Date: 2024/02/15

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Understanding perineal issues, particularly in relation to masturbation, erection problems, and the use of condoms, can be complex and multifaceted. Let's address your questions one by one, incorporating relevant medical knowledge to provide a comprehensive understanding.

1. Masturbation Frequency and Perineal Strength: You mentioned that during masturbation, your perineal area becomes hard when you exert force, and that you experience rapid ejaculation. Frequent masturbation, such as once a day, is generally considered normal and not inherently harmful. However, if you notice that you are experiencing difficulties with erection or ejaculation, it could be indicative of a few factors. Overexertion during masturbation can lead to temporary fatigue of the pelvic floor muscles, which may contribute to a feeling of weakness or difficulty maintaining an erection. Additionally, psychological factors such as anxiety or performance pressure can also play a significant role in sexual function. If you find that your perineal muscles are consistently tense or if you are experiencing pain, it may be beneficial to engage in pelvic floor exercises (Kegel exercises) to strengthen these muscles and improve control.

2. Erection Loss During Position Changes: It is common for men to experience a loss of erection when changing positions during sexual activity, especially if there is a lack of continuous stimulation. Factors such as fatigue, stress, and sleep deprivation can significantly impact sexual performance. You mentioned having a short sleep schedule, which can lead to decreased testosterone levels and increased fatigue, both of which can affect libido and erectile function. Incorporating regular exercise and improving your sleep hygiene can have a positive impact on your overall health and sexual function. It may take several weeks to notice improvements in sexual performance after making lifestyle changes, as your body adjusts to a healthier routine.

3. Erection Loss with Condom Use: The issue of losing an erection upon putting on a condom is not uncommon. This can be attributed to several factors, including anxiety about performance, the sensation of the condom itself, or a psychological association with the act of putting on a condom. Some men find that the physical sensation of a condom can diminish their arousal. To mitigate this, you might consider using thinner condoms or those designed to enhance sensitivity. Additionally, ensuring that you are fully aroused before putting on the condom can help maintain your erection. Engaging in foreplay and keeping the mood relaxed can also help.

Regarding your history of being a preterm infant with hypospadias, this condition can sometimes lead to psychological factors that may affect sexual function. However, if you have undergone corrective surgery and have no ongoing physical issues, it is unlikely to have a significant impact on your current sexual performance. If you are experiencing persistent issues, it may be beneficial to consult with a healthcare provider or a urologist who specializes in sexual health to explore any underlying concerns.

In summary, while frequent masturbation is generally not harmful, factors such as muscle fatigue, psychological stress, and lifestyle choices can all influence sexual performance. By addressing these areas, you may find improvements in your sexual health and function. If problems persist, seeking professional advice can provide tailored solutions to your specific situation.

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