Perineum, masturbation, and condom issues?
1.
During masturbation, the perineum becomes very hard with any exertion.
If I do not exert myself, I can last 10-20 minutes, but as soon as I exert, I feel an immediate urge to ejaculate, even with just an erection.
I would like to know if frequent masturbation can lead to perineal weakness or erectile dysfunction, or if there are other reasons for this? (Masturbation frequency is once a day.)
2.
After achieving an erection during masturbation or sex, if I change positions and do not continue stimulation for too long, I easily lose my erection.
What can I do to improve this? (I have very short sleep hours, usually sleeping from 2 AM to 4 AM, and I do not exercise often.
How serious is this? If I rely on improving my routine and exercising, how long might it take to recover?)
3.
After foreplay, I am very hard, but as soon as I put on a condom, I lose my erection.
If I do manage to penetrate, I ejaculate quickly.
What could be the reason for this? P.S.
I am a premature baby and have hypospadias (1-1.5 cm).
I may need to shake a few times to clean myself after urinating.
Could this affect my sexual function? Thank you for your answers, doctor.
Xiao Kang, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2024/02/16
Dr. Liu Mingyue reply Urology
Hello:
1.
When I usually masturbate, my perineum becomes very hard as soon as I exert force.
If I don't exert force, I can last 10-20 minutes, but as soon as I exert force, I immediately feel the urge to ejaculate.
Even when I just have an erection, exerting pressure on the perineum makes me ejaculate right away.
I would like to know if frequent masturbation can lead to perineal weakness or erectile dysfunction, or if there are other reasons? (Masturbation frequency is once a day) --- It should not make a difference.
2.
After getting an erection from masturbation or during sex, if I change positions and do not continue stimulation for too long, I easily lose my erection.
What can I do to improve this? (I have very short sleep, usually sleeping from 2 AM to 4 AM, and I don't exercise often.
Does this have a significant impact? How long would it take to recover by improving my routine and exercising?) --- It may require more attention to lifestyle, diet, and exercise.
Losing an erection without stimulation may be a habit formed from previous experiences.
3.
After foreplay before sex, I am very hard, but as soon as I put on a condom, I lose my erection.
If I do manage to penetrate, I ejaculate very quickly.
What could be the reason for this? --- This is likely a habit formed from DIY experiences.
P.S.
I was a premature baby and have hypospadias (1-1.5 cm).
I may need to shake a few times to clean myself properly when using the restroom.
Could this have an impact on my sexual function? --- It should not.
Wishing you good health.
Reply Date: 2024/02/16
More Info
Understanding perineal health, particularly in relation to masturbation, erectile issues, and the use of condoms, is essential for maintaining sexual well-being. Let's address your questions one by one.
1. Frequent Masturbation and Its Effects: Masturbation is a normal sexual activity, and for most individuals, it does not lead to erectile dysfunction or weakness in the perineal area. However, if you notice that your perineum becomes hard when you exert force during masturbation, it might be due to muscle tension or pelvic floor muscle engagement. Over time, excessive tension in these muscles can lead to discomfort or issues with erectile function. If you are masturbating frequently (once a day), it is unlikely to cause significant harm, but if you feel that it is affecting your sexual performance or causing discomfort, it may be worth exploring other techniques or reducing frequency. Factors such as anxiety, stress, or even the psychological aspect of performance can also contribute to premature ejaculation or erectile difficulties.
2. Erectile Issues During Position Changes: It is common for erections to soften if there is a lack of stimulation, especially during prolonged position changes. This can be exacerbated by factors such as fatigue, poor sleep, and lack of physical activity. Sleep deprivation, like the one you described (sleeping from 2 AM to 4 AM), can significantly impact hormonal balance and overall energy levels, which are crucial for sexual performance. Improving your sleep hygiene and incorporating regular exercise can enhance blood circulation and energy levels, potentially improving erectile function. Generally, it may take a few weeks of consistent lifestyle changes to notice improvements, but individual responses can vary.
3. Erectile Dysfunction with Condoms: The issue of losing an erection upon putting on a condom is not uncommon. This can be attributed to several factors, including anxiety about performance, the sensation of the condom itself, or even the psychological association of using a condom with a decrease in pleasure. To mitigate this, consider trying different types of condoms that may feel better or using lubrication to enhance sensation. Additionally, engaging in more foreplay or discussing comfort with your partner can help alleviate anxiety and maintain arousal.
Regarding your history as a premature infant with hypospadias, it is essential to note that while this condition can affect urinary function, it does not necessarily dictate sexual function. However, if you experience discomfort or have concerns about how this might impact your sexual health, consulting a urologist or a sexual health specialist would be beneficial. They can provide tailored advice and potential interventions to improve your sexual health.
In summary, while frequent masturbation is generally not harmful, lifestyle factors such as sleep and exercise play a significant role in sexual health. Addressing anxiety and ensuring comfort during sexual activities can also help improve erectile function. If issues persist, seeking professional advice is always a good step to ensure comprehensive care.
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