Sleepwalking, sleep inertia, or narcolepsy?
My husband works long hours, so he only gets 4 to 6 hours of sleep.
However, he never hears the alarm even when it's set to the maximum volume.
When I try to wake him, he often reacts aggressively or exhibits violent behavior, such as throwing things, but he doesn't direct violence towards me.
Sometimes it takes me one to two hours to wake him up.
Even if he sleeps for 20 hours on his days off, he still feels drowsy when driving.
He can even fall asleep while standing in the shower or walking, and has bumped into walls while asleep.
I would like to know if medication could help improve this situation.
Is this a condition that causes such behavior? It has severely affected our relationship, and since I am currently pregnant and emotionally unstable, I find it really difficult to keep waking him up to the point of getting angry.
Additionally, some of the things he says while in this state are quite hurtful.
I don't think it's just due to lack of sleep, as he exhibited similar behavior even when he had a normal sleep schedule during his student years.
Thank you, doctor.
Wanwan, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2024/03/05
Dr. Cai Yunlin reply Psychiatry
Hello, you mentioned that there are aspects of your family member's condition that require further clarification regarding medical history, symptom presentation, and lifestyle.
It's difficult to assess the actual behavior based solely on the description provided.
Since your family member's condition has already caused disruptions in daily life, I recommend seeking further evaluation and examination at a sleep center.
Thank you for your consideration.
Reply Date: 2024/03/05
More Info
Sleep disorders can manifest in various ways, and the symptoms you describe regarding your husband suggest a complex interplay of sleep deprivation and possibly a sleep disorder. It’s important to understand that sleep is crucial for overall health, and chronic sleep deprivation can lead to a range of physical and psychological issues.
From your description, it seems that your husband is experiencing excessive daytime sleepiness and episodes of aggressive behavior during sleep. This could be indicative of several sleep disorders, including sleepwalking (somnambulism), sleep-related violence, or even a condition known as REM Sleep Behavior Disorder (RBD). RBD is characterized by the acting out of dreams, which can sometimes involve aggressive movements or behaviors.
The fact that your husband sleeps for only 4-6 hours a night is concerning. The National Sleep Foundation recommends that adults aim for 7-9 hours of sleep per night for optimal health. Chronic sleep deprivation can lead to cognitive impairments, mood disturbances, and increased risk of accidents, as you have noted with his tendency to fall asleep while standing or walking. This level of sleep deprivation can also exacerbate any underlying sleep disorders.
The aggressive behavior you mentioned, such as yelling or throwing things, could be a result of confusion or disorientation during these episodes. When someone is abruptly awakened from deep sleep, they may not fully comprehend their surroundings, leading to aggressive reactions. This is often referred to as "confusional arousal," which can occur during transitions between sleep stages.
Given your husband's history of similar behaviors during his student years, it is possible that he has a predisposition to these sleep disturbances. Stress, lifestyle changes, and even certain medications can exacerbate these issues. Additionally, if he has a history of sleepwalking or other parasomnias, it may be beneficial to explore this further with a sleep specialist.
In terms of treatment, it is crucial to first identify the underlying cause of these symptoms. A sleep study (polysomnography) could provide valuable insights into his sleep patterns and any abnormalities that may be occurring during the night. This study can help determine if he has a specific sleep disorder that requires treatment.
Medications may be prescribed to help regulate sleep patterns or address specific symptoms, but it is essential that this be done under the guidance of a healthcare professional. Behavioral interventions, such as improving sleep hygiene, establishing a regular sleep schedule, and creating a calming bedtime routine, can also be beneficial.
Given your current pregnancy and the emotional toll this situation is taking on you, it is vital to seek professional help. A healthcare provider can offer support and guidance tailored to your husband’s specific needs and your family situation. Additionally, couples counseling may also be beneficial to help navigate the emotional challenges you are facing together.
In summary, your husband’s symptoms warrant a thorough evaluation by a sleep specialist. Understanding the root cause of his sleep disturbances is crucial for effective treatment and improving both his quality of life and your relationship. Prioritizing sleep and addressing any underlying issues can lead to significant improvements in his behavior and overall well-being.
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