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Hello, doctor: How long is considered normal from vaginal penetration to ejaculation? Can external training help in prolonging ejaculation? Thank you!

Xiao Guang, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2004/06/04

Dr. Lin Hexing reply Urology


Hello, Xiao Guang: The definition of premature ejaculation is as follows: 1.
Ejaculation occurs within one minute of vaginal penetration (some scholars define it as within 30 seconds).
2.
The number of thrusts after vaginal penetration is less than 10.
3.
A more appropriate definition is that ejaculation occurs sooner than either the individual or their partner's expectations.
Delaying ejaculation can be achieved through external training, which requires participation from both partners.
The most effective method is the interactive squeeze technique.
Self-training can also be attempted by first engaging in masturbation; when nearing ejaculation, stop the action, relax, and allow the urge to subside before stimulating again.
Repeating this practice can help extend the duration of ejaculation.

Reply Date: 2004/06/04

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The duration from vaginal penetration to ejaculation can vary significantly among individuals, and what is considered "normal" can depend on various factors, including age, psychological state, and overall health. Generally, studies suggest that the average time from penetration to ejaculation ranges from about 5 to 7 minutes. However, this is just an average, and many men may experience shorter or longer durations without it being a cause for concern.

When discussing the concept of "delayed ejaculation," it is important to note that some men may wish to extend the duration of intercourse for various reasons, including enhancing sexual satisfaction for both partners. There are indeed external training methods and techniques that can help with this. Here are a few approaches:
1. Behavioral Techniques: Techniques such as the "stop-start" method or the "squeeze" technique can help men gain better control over their ejaculation. The stop-start method involves pausing sexual stimulation just before the point of ejaculation, allowing the sensation to subside before resuming. The squeeze technique involves squeezing the penis at the base to reduce arousal.

2. Kegel Exercises: Strengthening the pelvic floor muscles through Kegel exercises can improve control over ejaculation. These exercises involve repeatedly contracting and relaxing the muscles that control urination. Over time, this can lead to improved sexual performance and control.

3. Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: Anxiety and stress can contribute to premature ejaculation. Practicing mindfulness, deep breathing, and relaxation techniques can help reduce anxiety during sexual activity, potentially leading to longer durations before ejaculation.

4. Desensitizing Products: Some men may find that using desensitizing creams or sprays can help prolong the duration of intercourse. These products typically contain numbing agents that reduce sensitivity, allowing for longer-lasting performance.

5. Consultation with a Healthcare Provider: If concerns about ejaculation duration persist, it may be beneficial to consult with a healthcare provider or a sex therapist. They can provide personalized advice, assess for any underlying medical conditions, and suggest appropriate treatments or therapies.

It's important to remember that sexual performance can be influenced by many factors, including emotional intimacy, relationship dynamics, and physical health. Open communication with a partner about sexual preferences and concerns can also enhance the overall sexual experience.

In summary, while the average duration from penetration to ejaculation is around 5 to 7 minutes, individual experiences can vary widely. There are several techniques and methods that can help men extend this duration, and seeking professional guidance can provide additional support and resources.

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