Normal Duration of Intercourse and Premature Ejaculation - Urology

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Hello, doctor: Is there a normal duration for penile-vaginal intercourse until ejaculation? Does sensitivity of the glans contribute to the desire for premature ejaculation?

Xiao Feng, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2004/06/03

Dr. Chen Xiuyi reply Urology


Hello: There is no absolute standard for the duration of sexual intercourse.
Although a report by American scholar Alfred Kinsey states that 75% of American men ejaculate within 2 minutes after penile-vaginal penetration, there are no similar studies or reports in Taiwan.
The current understanding is that as long as more than half of the sexual encounters can satisfy the partner, it is considered acceptable.
The causes of premature ejaculation can be attributed to psychological or physiological factors.
For persistent premature ejaculation, current research suggests it may be related to heightened sensitivity of the autonomic nervous system.
Sincerely, Dr.
Hsiu-Yi Chen, Urology Department, Taoyuan Hospital, Ministry of Health and Welfare.

Reply Date: 2004/06/03

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When discussing the normal duration of intercourse and the phenomenon of premature ejaculation, it's essential to understand that there is a wide range of what is considered "normal." Research indicates that the average duration of penetrative intercourse, from penetration to ejaculation, typically ranges from about 5 to 7 minutes. However, this can vary significantly among individuals and couples, with some experiencing shorter or longer durations.

Premature ejaculation (PE) is defined as ejaculation that occurs with minimal sexual stimulation, often within one minute of penetration, and is considered a common sexual dysfunction affecting many men at some point in their lives. Factors contributing to PE can include psychological aspects such as anxiety, stress, or relationship issues, as well as physiological factors like heightened sensitivity of the penis.

Regarding the sensitivity of the glans (the head of the penis), it can indeed play a role in the desire to ejaculate prematurely. The glans is densely packed with nerve endings, making it highly sensitive. For some men, this heightened sensitivity can lead to a quicker onset of ejaculation. If a man finds that he is consistently ejaculating sooner than he would like, it may be beneficial to explore various techniques to help manage this, such as behavioral techniques (e.g., the stop-start method or the squeeze technique), pelvic floor exercises, or even discussing the use of desensitizing creams or medications with a healthcare provider.

It's also important to note that communication with a partner is crucial. Discussing preferences, desires, and any concerns about sexual performance can help alleviate anxiety and improve the overall sexual experience for both partners.
In addition to these considerations, if premature ejaculation is a persistent issue, it may be worthwhile to consult with a healthcare professional. They can provide guidance tailored to individual circumstances, which may include counseling, therapy, or medical treatments that can help manage the condition effectively.

In summary, while there is a general understanding of what constitutes a "normal" duration for intercourse, individual experiences can vary widely. Sensitivity of the glans can contribute to the experience of premature ejaculation, and addressing this through various techniques and open communication can lead to improved sexual satisfaction. If concerns persist, seeking professional advice is always a prudent step.

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