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I have had sexual intercourse with my girlfriend about 4.5 times.
During our first time, we lasted around 10 minutes, but in the subsequent encounters, the duration has decreased to as short as 4.5 minutes.
Does this indicate premature ejaculation? Additionally, there are times when I lose my erection midway.
What could be the reason for this?
Xiao An, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2004/08/30
Dr. Chen Xiuyi reply Urology
Hello: There are many factors that contribute to sexual dysfunction.
Generally, there is no standard definition for premature ejaculation.
According to a report by foreign scholars (Waldinger, 1998), premature ejaculation is defined as ejaculation occurring in less than one minute from the time of penile insertion into the vagina in more than 90% of sexual intercourse instances.
Based on what you described, it seems to be normal.
If you have further questions, please consult a urologist.
Sincerely, Dr.
Hsiu-Yi Chen, Urology.
Reply Date: 2004/08/30
More Info
Premature ejaculation (PE) is a common sexual dysfunction that affects many men at some point in their lives. It is characterized by ejaculation that occurs with minimal sexual stimulation, often before the individual wishes it to happen. Understanding the causes and potential solutions for PE can help individuals and couples navigate this issue more effectively.
Causes of Premature Ejaculation
1. Psychological Factors: Anxiety, stress, and relationship issues can significantly impact sexual performance. The pressure to perform or fear of not satisfying a partner can lead to heightened anxiety, which may result in premature ejaculation. Performance anxiety is particularly common in men who are new to sexual experiences.
2. Biological Factors: Certain biological factors may contribute to PE, including hormonal imbalances, neurotransmitter levels, and sensitivity of the penis. For instance, an imbalance in serotonin levels has been linked to PE. Additionally, men with a history of sexual trauma or those who have experienced sexual dysfunction in the past may be more susceptible.
3. Medical Conditions: Some medical conditions, such as prostatitis or thyroid problems, can affect ejaculation. Furthermore, certain medications, especially those that affect neurotransmitter levels, can also play a role.
4. Lifestyle Factors: Substance abuse, including alcohol and recreational drugs, can impair sexual function and contribute to PE. Additionally, lack of physical fitness and poor diet may also be contributing factors.
Solutions and Management Strategies
1. Communication with Partner: Open dialogue with your partner about sexual preferences, concerns, and feelings can alleviate anxiety and improve sexual experiences. Understanding that PE is a common issue can help both partners feel more comfortable.
2. Behavioral Techniques: Techniques such as the "stop-start" method or the "squeeze" technique can help men gain better control over ejaculation. The stop-start method involves pausing sexual stimulation before ejaculation, while the squeeze technique involves squeezing the penis at the base to reduce arousal.
3. Pelvic Floor Exercises: Strengthening the pelvic floor muscles through exercises (often referred to as Kegel exercises) can enhance control over ejaculation. These exercises involve repeatedly contracting and relaxing the muscles that control urination.
4. Desensitizing Products: Over-the-counter creams or sprays that contain numbing agents can reduce sensitivity and help prolong the duration of intercourse. However, it is essential to use these products as directed and to communicate with your partner about their use.
5. Counseling or Therapy: If psychological factors are contributing to PE, seeking the help of a therapist or counselor can be beneficial. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) can help address anxiety and improve sexual confidence.
6. Medical Treatments: In some cases, medications may be prescribed to help manage PE. Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) are commonly used off-label to delay ejaculation. Other medications may also be considered based on individual needs.
7. Lifestyle Changes: Adopting a healthier lifestyle, including regular exercise, a balanced diet, and reducing alcohol and drug use, can improve overall sexual health and function.
Conclusion
Experiencing changes in sexual performance, such as a decrease in duration or episodes of erectile dysfunction, can be concerning. However, it is essential to recognize that these issues are common and can often be addressed through various strategies. If premature ejaculation persists or significantly impacts your sexual relationship, consulting a healthcare professional is advisable. They can provide personalized recommendations and support tailored to your specific situation. Remember, sexual health is an integral part of overall well-being, and seeking help is a positive step toward improvement.
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