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Doctor, I am almost 23 years old.
I got married when I was 20.
Recently, my sexual relationship with my wife has not been very satisfactory, and she has not become pregnant.
Additionally, I have been experiencing a decline in my physical strength.
I consulted a traditional Chinese medicine doctor who said I have kidney deficiency and insufficient sperm count.
He also mentioned that my early sexual activity and habit of masturbation are contributing to my poor physical condition.
Is this true? However, I read a book that stated masturbation does not have any negative effects on the body.
Also, what age is considered too early for sexual activity?
On a side note, how is the length of a male's penis measured? I read in a book that size shouldn't matter, but a few days ago, I noticed that my colleague's penis looks different from mine while we were swimming.
What is considered a normal male penis size?
Lastly, can men have health issues if their testicles are too small? My older brother mentioned that his testicles are the size of a one-dollar coin.
Is that a problem? He is almost 40 years old and still not married; will that affect his ability to have children? Also, if a high school senior has a penis size of only 3 centimeters, is that considered too small? How can this be addressed? Thank you.
Xiao Di, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2004/07/10
Dr. Xu Wencang reply Urology
Hello: In response to your question, the measurement of penile length varies.
The measurement point at the base is where the pubic skin meets the penile skin, and it should be pressed down as much as possible to the pubic bone.
According to statistics from the Tri-Service General Hospital, the average length of the penis in young men is approximately 7.1 cm when flaccid and about 13.5 cm when erect.
As for what is considered a significantly short penis, it is generally accepted that a length of less than 4 cm when flaccid and less than 7 cm when erect may warrant a consultation with a urologist.
Additionally, for infertility issues and cases of small testicles, endocrine and chromosomal evaluations should be conducted.
Reply Date: 2004/07/10
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Understanding male sexual health is a multifaceted topic that encompasses various aspects, including fertility, anatomy, and psychological well-being. Your concerns about sexual performance, fertility, and physical health are valid and deserve careful consideration.
Firstly, regarding your sexual health and the challenges you face with your wife, it’s important to recognize that sexual dysfunction can stem from a variety of factors, including psychological stress, hormonal imbalances, and physical health issues. The notion of "kidney deficiency" as mentioned by your traditional Chinese medicine practitioner is a concept rooted in traditional beliefs rather than modern medical science. However, it is true that lifestyle factors, stress, and overall health can significantly impact sexual performance and fertility.
You mentioned concerns about sperm quality and quantity. It’s essential to understand that factors such as diet, exercise, stress levels, and substance use (like smoking or excessive alcohol consumption) can affect sperm production. If you have been experiencing difficulties in conceiving, it may be beneficial to undergo a semen analysis through a healthcare provider. This test can provide insights into sperm count, motility, and morphology, which are critical factors in male fertility.
Regarding the notion of masturbation, research indicates that it is a normal sexual activity and does not inherently cause physical harm or diminish sexual performance. In fact, regular ejaculation through masturbation can be beneficial for prostate health. The idea that early sexual activity or masturbation can lead to health issues is largely a myth; however, excessive or compulsive behaviors may lead to psychological distress or relationship issues.
As for your concerns about penis size, it’s important to note that penis size varies widely among individuals, and there is no "normal" size that applies universally. The average erect penis size is typically around 5 to 6 inches in length, but many factors contribute to sexual satisfaction beyond size, including emotional connection and technique. If you feel insecure about your size, it may be helpful to discuss these feelings with a mental health professional who can provide support and guidance.
Concerning testicular size, it is also important to understand that variations exist. The average testicle size is about 1.5 to 2 inches in length and about 1 inch in width. Smaller testicles do not necessarily indicate a problem, but if there are concerns about size or if your brother is experiencing issues with fertility, it would be advisable for him to consult a healthcare provider. Conditions such as testicular atrophy or hormonal imbalances can affect fertility, and a medical evaluation can help determine if there are underlying issues.
Lastly, regarding your question about the size of the penis during high school years, it’s important to remember that puberty varies significantly among individuals. Many boys experience growth spurts at different ages, and it is normal for some to have smaller sizes during adolescence. If there are concerns about development, it may be beneficial to consult a healthcare provider who specializes in adolescent health.
In summary, your concerns about sexual health, fertility, and anatomy are important and should be addressed with a qualified healthcare provider. They can offer personalized advice, conduct necessary tests, and provide treatment options tailored to your specific situation. Open communication with your partner about these issues is also crucial for maintaining a healthy relationship. Seeking professional help can lead to better understanding and management of your sexual health concerns.
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