Is Your 9-Month-Old Refusing Milk? Nutritional Tips for Parents - Pediatrics

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The child is 9 months old and drinks breast milk twice a day (about 300cc).
Recently, he refuses to drink cow's milk completely, and when we try to give it to him while he is asleep, he just spits it out.
We are making porridge from brown rice and adding bone broth, giving him about 60cc three times a day, which is approximately a quarter cup of rice.
Is this enough nutrition?

Fanrao de mama, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2004/11/17

Dr. Yi Zonghong reply Pediatrics


Dr.
Tsai Cheng-Hsien, attending physician of the pediatrics department at Tainan City Hospital, responds: Dear concerned mother, babies who are breastfed indeed need to start introducing complementary foods and prepare for weaning at this stage.
The process typically begins with rice cereal or rice, followed by oatmeal, fruits, vegetables, and fish or meat.
When your baby sees adults eating and reaches out to grab food, this is the best time to introduce complementary foods.
Start with small amounts of a new food; if the baby develops a rash, diarrhea, or unusual irritability, it is advisable to pause for a week or two before trying again.

When your baby can sit up well, you can offer foods that they can grasp with their hands, which require minimal chewing and are easy to swallow, such as mashed potatoes, diced fruits, or melt-in-your-mouth baby biscuits, allowing them to learn self-feeding.
You can give them a small spoonful of banana puree, porridge, or rice cereal; if they enjoy chewing and swallowing it, you can gradually increase the amount.
If they push the food out with their tongue, it indicates a lack of interest, so do not force it; wait a week or two before trying again.

Before offering complementary foods, you can feed them some milk to prevent them from being too hungry and rejecting other foods.
After introducing complementary foods, the baby's stools may become softer, and sometimes small pieces of food may pass through undigested; as long as the stools are not watery, this is normal.
Generally, babies enjoy eating alongside adults, so you can let them sit at the dining table during family meals.
Many babies particularly like the food from adults' plates; you can select less greasy and less salty options for them, and this is also an opportunity to observe the family's dietary habits for healthiness.
As the baby's hand-eye coordination improves, you can let them play with a spoon during mealtime.
Once they learn how to use a spoon, you can place a little food on it for them to try self-feeding, while you use another spoon to feed them the rest.
Initially, they may make a mess or play with most of the food, so you can lay down a large newspaper under the chair and clean up afterward.
Do not rush to take their spoon away or quickly wipe their mouth; eating is also a form of play and a way for babies to practice hand-eye coordination.
Once the baby can sit steadily, you can prepare a high chair to establish the habit of sitting in it during meals.
If they get up to play, let them leave; avoid developing the bad habit of chasing them to feed.
To prevent the baby from getting used to high-cholesterol foods, some suggest limiting egg yolks to no more than three per week.
Egg whites are more likely to cause allergies, and it is recommended to introduce them after one year of age.
Complementary foods should never be placed in a bottle to avoid overfeeding.
Using chopsticks or a spoon for feeding is fundamental in developing proper eating habits in infants.

There are various ready-made baby food jars available on the market; while convenient, they are not particularly recommended.
Baby food should prioritize natural and minimally processed options.
If purchasing, be sure to check the expiration date, ensure the packaging is safe, and confirm the contents are fresh.
Once opened, pay attention to the usage period (usually must be consumed within 24 hours).
Tainan City Hospital cares about you! If you have any questions, feel free to reach out again.

Reply Date: 2004/11/17

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At nine months old, your baby is at a crucial stage of development where nutritional needs are evolving. It's common for infants to show preferences or aversions to certain foods, including milk. Given that your child is currently consuming about 300cc of breast milk daily and is refusing cow's milk, it’s important to ensure that he is receiving adequate nutrition from other sources.

Breast milk is an excellent source of nutrition for infants, providing essential vitamins, minerals, and antibodies. However, as babies grow, they need to start incorporating a variety of solid foods into their diet to meet their nutritional requirements. The introduction of solid foods typically begins around six months, and by nine months, babies should be trying a range of foods, including grains, fruits, vegetables, and proteins.

In your case, you mentioned that your baby is consuming a rice porridge made from brown rice and bone broth, along with some additional solid food. While this can provide some nutrients, it may not be sufficient to meet all of your baby's dietary needs. Here are some considerations and tips to ensure your baby is getting the right nutrition:
1. Variety of Foods: It's important to introduce a variety of foods to your baby's diet. In addition to the rice porridge, consider adding pureed fruits (like bananas, apples, or pears), vegetables (like sweet potatoes, carrots, or peas), and proteins (like pureed chicken, fish, or beans). This will help ensure that your baby receives a balanced diet with essential nutrients.

2. Iron-Rich Foods: At this age, babies need iron for growth and development. If your baby is not consuming iron-fortified cereals or meats, consider introducing these foods. Iron is crucial for cognitive development and overall health.

3. Healthy Fats: Healthy fats are important for brain development. You can introduce small amounts of avocado, nut butters (if there are no allergy concerns), or olive oil into your baby's meals.

4. Encourage Self-Feeding: As your baby develops motor skills, encourage self-feeding with soft, easy-to-grasp foods. This not only promotes independence but also helps with hand-eye coordination.

5. Monitor Growth: Keep an eye on your baby's growth patterns. Regular check-ups with a pediatrician can help assess whether your baby is growing appropriately. If you notice any significant weight loss or lack of growth, consult your pediatrician for further evaluation.

6. Hydration: If your baby is refusing cow's milk, ensure he stays hydrated with water or continue breastfeeding as needed. You can also try offering milk in different forms, such as yogurt or cheese, which may be more palatable.

7. Avoid Force-Feeding: If your baby shows disinterest in certain foods, avoid forcing him to eat. Instead, offer the food again after a week or two. Babies often go through phases of food preferences.

8. Consult a Pediatrician: If you have concerns about your baby's nutrition or growth, it’s always best to consult a pediatrician or a pediatric nutritionist. They can provide tailored advice based on your baby's specific needs.

In summary, while your current approach of using brown rice porridge and bone broth is a good start, expanding the variety of foods and ensuring a balanced diet will be key to meeting your baby's nutritional needs. Remember that every baby is different, and it may take time to find the right foods that your child enjoys and that provide the necessary nutrients for healthy growth and development.

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