Please help me, Dr. Lai?
I would like to ask, the last time Dr.
Lai mentioned that I might have phimosis, but when I have an erection, the foreskin does not completely cover the glans.
Now, after each sexual intercourse, there are some blood streaks on the skin below the glans (as if it has been pulled down forcefully).
Could you please explain why, even with phimosis, there is still a pulling sensation below the glans after intercourse? I can already see a little bit of the penile skin.
Is this an issue related to my partner? Please help me.
Wang Xiansheng, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2005/02/16
Dr. Lai Ronghao reply Urology
Hello Mr.
Wang: That is the frenulum of the glans, which can be injured if sexual activity is too vigorous.
This is a response from Dr.
Lai Rong-Hao, Director of the Urology Department at Hsinchu Hospital, Ministry of Health and Welfare.
Reply Date: 2005/02/16
More Info
Phimosis is a condition where the foreskin of the penis cannot be fully retracted over the glans (the head of the penis). This can lead to discomfort or pain during sexual intercourse, particularly if the foreskin is too tight. In your case, it seems that you are experiencing some bleeding or irritation after intercourse, which could be due to the friction caused by the tight foreskin during sexual activity.
Causes of Phimosis
1. Congenital Phimosis: This is when the foreskin is naturally too tight from birth. It is common in infants and young boys, and many will outgrow this condition as they age.
2. Acquired Phimosis: This can occur due to scarring or inflammation of the foreskin, often as a result of infections, poor hygiene, or conditions such as balanitis (inflammation of the glans).
3. Skin Conditions: Certain skin conditions, such as psoriasis or lichen sclerosus, can also lead to phimosis by causing the skin to become less elastic.
Symptoms and Complications
- Pain or Discomfort: As you mentioned, pain during intercourse is a common symptom. The tight foreskin can cause friction and irritation, leading to bleeding or soreness.
- Bleeding: The presence of blood after intercourse may indicate that the foreskin is being stretched too tightly, resulting in micro-tears or abrasions.
- Infections: Phimosis can increase the risk of infections, as it may be harder to maintain proper hygiene.
Solutions for Phimosis
1. Topical Steroids: In some cases, applying a topical steroid cream can help to soften and stretch the foreskin, making it easier to retract.
2. Gentle Stretching: Gradual and gentle stretching of the foreskin can sometimes help. However, this should be done carefully to avoid pain or injury.
3. Circumcision: If phimosis is severe and causing significant problems, circumcision (the surgical removal of the foreskin) may be recommended. This is often considered a definitive solution.
4. Preputioplasty: This is a less invasive surgical option that involves widening the opening of the foreskin without removing it.
Recommendations
- Consult a Urologist: It is crucial to discuss your symptoms with a healthcare professional, preferably a urologist, who can provide a thorough examination and recommend appropriate treatment options based on the severity of your condition.
- Avoid Forceful Retraction: Do not attempt to forcibly retract the foreskin, as this can lead to further injury and complications.
- Hygiene: Maintain good hygiene to prevent infections. Gently clean the area with mild soap and water.
- Communication with Partner: Discuss your condition with your partner to ensure that both of you are comfortable during sexual activity. Adjusting positions or using lubrication may help reduce discomfort.
Conclusion
Phimosis can lead to discomfort during sexual activity, and it is essential to address this condition to prevent further complications. Seeking medical advice is the best course of action to determine the most appropriate treatment for your situation. Remember, you are not alone in this, and many men experience similar issues. With the right approach, you can find relief and improve your sexual health.
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