Why Do I Feel the Urge to Urinate During Oral Sex?

When my girlfriend performs oral sex on me, I feel the urge to urinate?

When my girlfriend performs oral sex on me, if she applies pressure to the tip of my glans near the shaft, I feel the urge to urinate.
At first, this didn't happen, but now it almost always does.
Initially, the tip of my glans was connected to the skin at the base, but it later tore apart, allowing the foreskin to be pulled back completely, exposing the entire glans, similar to after a circumcision.
Could this be the reason why I feel the urge to urinate? This issue is quite troubling for me, and I would like to understand why...
Thank you!

Yihuo de ren, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2005/03/09

Dr. Chen Xiuyi reply Urology

Irritation of the foreskin and glans can lead to a sensation of urinary urgency, which may be caused by a reflex action resulting in bladder muscle contraction.
If symptoms persist, please consult a urologist.

Reply Date: 2005/03/09

More Info

The sensation of needing to urinate during oral sex can be attributed to several physiological and anatomical factors. When your girlfriend performs oral sex and applies pressure to the area near the base of the glans (the head of the penis), it can stimulate the nerves in that region, which are closely linked to the bladder and urethra. This stimulation can create a sensation similar to the urge to urinate.
The anatomy of the male genitalia includes a network of nerves that can be sensitive to pressure and touch. The glans and the surrounding areas are rich in nerve endings, and when these areas are stimulated, it can sometimes trigger a reflex that mimics the feeling of needing to urinate. This is particularly true if there is any pressure applied to the urethra, which runs through the penis and carries urine from the bladder.

Additionally, the changes you mentioned regarding your foreskin could also play a role. If you have experienced a change in the anatomy of your penis, such as the foreskin being retracted or altered, it may lead to increased sensitivity in the area. This heightened sensitivity can make you more aware of sensations that might not have bothered you before, including the feeling of needing to urinate.

It's also worth noting that anxiety or nervousness during sexual activity can heighten bodily sensations and lead to a feeling of urgency. If you are concerned about the possibility of discomfort or other issues during sexual activity, it might be helpful to communicate openly with your partner about your feelings and sensations.
If this sensation persists or is accompanied by other symptoms, such as pain, burning during urination, or changes in urinary habits, it would be prudent to consult a healthcare professional. They can evaluate for potential underlying issues, such as urinary tract infections (UTIs) or other conditions that might be contributing to your symptoms.
In summary, the urge to urinate during oral sex can be a normal response to stimulation in a sensitive area. However, if you have concerns about your sexual health or any changes in your anatomy, it is always best to seek advice from a qualified healthcare provider who can offer personalized guidance and support.

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