I'm not sure what's going on?
My friend's mother sometimes talks to herself, curses, and laughs alone.
This has been happening for about ten years.
The content of her self-talk often revolves around being bullied by relatives during her youth (which is factual) and she gets very angry when discussing it.
When asked about the reason for her laughter, she says it’s because of something funny a colleague said.
Sometimes she expresses that being bullied in her youth has led to an excess of toxins in her body, which is why she has dark spots on her face.
She frequently picks at her face, to the point of causing bleeding, and even after it heals, she continues to pick at it.
This behavior does not affect her work (she has been employed for over ten years) or her sleep.
Is this a form of personal emotional expression or could it indicate a mental health disorder?
lance, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2006/08/03
Dr. Shao Jinghan reply Psychiatry
Hello Lance, based on your description, your friend's mother seems to be exhibiting psychiatric symptoms, but it would be best for her to visit a psychosomatic medicine or psychiatry department at a hospital for a proper evaluation.
1.
Talking to herself, laughing, and cursing: For example, she may hear voices and engage in conversations or arguments with unseen individuals.
Sometimes these voices may change into hissing sounds.
2.
She claims that being bullied in her youth has led to an accumulation of toxins in her body, resulting in dark spots on her face.
She compulsively picks at her face until it bleeds, and even after healing, she continues to pick.
This explanation is a form of delusional thinking, possibly indicative of a somatic delusion.
3.
"It does not affect her work (she has been employed for over a decade)": The diagnosis of mental illness not only considers symptoms but also their severity (such as whether they impact social role functioning) and the duration of symptoms (for example, persisting for more than six months).
Your friend's mother likely has significant psychiatric symptoms.
Although they currently do not affect her work, there is a possibility that they may worsen with age.
It is advisable for her to seek medical attention and treatment as soon as possible.
Reply Date: 2006/08/03
More Info
Understanding the behaviors described in your question requires a nuanced approach, as they can stem from a variety of psychological and emotional factors. Your friend's mother exhibits behaviors such as talking to herself, cursing, laughing, and fixating on past experiences of being bullied. These behaviors have persisted for over a decade, which raises important considerations regarding their nature and implications.
Emotional Release vs. Mental Illness
1. Emotional Release:
- Self-talk can often serve as a coping mechanism. Many individuals engage in self-dialogue as a way to process their thoughts and feelings. This can be particularly true when reflecting on past traumas or injustices, such as being bullied. In this context, her self-talk may represent an attempt to articulate and release pent-up emotions related to her experiences. The laughter she exhibits could also be a form of emotional release, where she finds humor in her memories or in the absurdity of her situation.
2. Potential Indicators of Mental Illness:
- While self-talk can be normal, the intensity and content of her speech may suggest underlying issues. If her self-talk is accompanied by significant distress, such as anger or sadness, or if it becomes more frequent and disruptive, it could indicate a mental health condition. The compulsive behavior of picking at her face until it bleeds is particularly concerning, as it may suggest a form of obsessive-compulsive behavior or a way of managing anxiety. This behavior can lead to physical harm and may require intervention.
3. Impact on Daily Functioning:
- You mentioned that her behaviors do not seem to affect her work or sleep. This is an important factor in assessing whether her behaviors are symptomatic of a mental illness. In many diagnostic frameworks, such as the DSM-5, a key criterion for mental disorders is that they cause significant impairment in social, occupational, or other important areas of functioning. If she is able to maintain her job and sleep well, it may suggest that her behaviors, while unusual, do not currently meet the threshold for a mental health diagnosis.
Recommendations
1. Observation and Support:
- It may be beneficial for her family to observe her behaviors more closely. Are there triggers that lead to her self-talk or emotional outbursts? Understanding the context can provide insight into whether these behaviors are simply a form of emotional expression or indicative of deeper issues.
2. Encouraging Professional Help:
- If her behaviors escalate or if there are concerns about her mental health, encouraging her to seek professional help from a psychologist or psychiatrist could be beneficial. A mental health professional can conduct a thorough assessment and determine if there is an underlying condition that needs to be addressed.
3. Creating a Safe Environment:
- It’s important for her family to create a supportive environment where she feels safe to express her emotions. This can help her feel less isolated and may reduce the intensity of her behaviors.
4. Self-Care Strategies:
- Encouraging her to engage in self-care activities, such as mindfulness, exercise, or hobbies, can provide alternative outlets for her emotions and may help reduce the need for self-destructive behaviors.
Conclusion
In summary, the behaviors exhibited by your friend's mother could be a mix of emotional release and potential indicators of mental health issues. While her ability to maintain her job and sleep suggests that she may not currently be experiencing a debilitating mental illness, the compulsive nature of her skin-picking and the intensity of her self-talk warrant careful observation and possibly professional evaluation. Encouraging open dialogue about her feelings and seeking support from mental health professionals can provide her with the tools she needs to navigate her emotional landscape more effectively.
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