Erectile dysfunction?
Recently, I have noticed that the hardness of my erections feels a bit insufficient during intercourse.
Sometimes, even after putting on a condom, I start to lose my erection as soon as I insert it.
However, if I continue to receive stimulation, it remains hard.
I'm not sure what the issue is or what methods I can use to improve this.
Lurén, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2007/03/04
Dr. Lin Wenxu reply Urology
Sexual dysfunction can be broadly categorized into two main types: 1.
psychogenic and 2.
organic, with mixed types being the most common.
Considering your age and presenting complaints, it is likely that psychogenic factors are predominant, meaning that emotional and psychological factors are influencing your condition.
It is recommended that you try not to overthink during sexual activity; instead, focus and relax.
This may help improve the situation.
If you continue to feel troubled, please visit a urology clinic for a more thorough examination.
Reply Date: 2007/03/04
More Info
Erection durability, or the ability to maintain an erection during sexual activity, can be influenced by a variety of factors, both physical and psychological. The situation you described—experiencing a decrease in erection hardness after putting on a condom, yet being able to maintain an erection with continued stimulation—can be attributed to several potential causes.
Understanding Erection Durability
1. Physiological Factors:
- Blood Flow: Erection is primarily a vascular event. Blood flow to the penis increases, causing it to become erect. If there are any issues with blood flow, such as vascular disease or reduced blood pressure, this can affect the hardness and durability of an erection.
- Hormonal Levels: Testosterone plays a crucial role in sexual function. Low testosterone levels can lead to difficulties in achieving or maintaining an erection.
- Nerve Function: Proper nerve function is essential for an erection. Conditions such as diabetes, multiple sclerosis, or spinal cord injuries can impair nerve signals necessary for an erection.
2. Psychological Factors:
- Anxiety and Stress: Performance anxiety or stress related to sexual activity can lead to difficulties in maintaining an erection. The pressure to perform can create a cycle of anxiety that further exacerbates the issue.
- Relationship Dynamics: Emotional connection and comfort with a partner can significantly impact sexual performance. If there are underlying issues in the relationship, they may manifest as erectile difficulties.
3. Mechanical Factors:
- Condom Use: Some men find that wearing a condom can reduce sensitivity, which may lead to a decrease in erection hardness. This is a common concern and can be addressed by trying different types of condoms, such as those designed to enhance sensitivity or those that are thinner.
Improving Erection Durability
1. Lifestyle Changes:
- Exercise: Regular physical activity can improve blood flow and reduce anxiety, both of which can enhance erectile function.
- Diet: A balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean proteins can improve overall health and vascular function.
- Avoiding Smoking and Excessive Alcohol: Both smoking and excessive alcohol consumption can impair erectile function.
2. Psychological Support:
- Counseling or Therapy: If anxiety or relationship issues are contributing to erectile difficulties, speaking with a therapist or counselor can be beneficial. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) is particularly effective for performance anxiety.
- Open Communication: Discussing concerns with your partner can alleviate anxiety and improve intimacy, which may enhance sexual performance.
3. Medical Consultation:
- Evaluation by a Urologist: If the issue persists, it may be wise to consult a urologist. They can perform a thorough evaluation, including blood tests to check hormone levels and assess vascular health.
- Medications: There are medications available, such as phosphodiesterase type 5 inhibitors (e.g., Viagra, Cialis), that can help improve erectile function. However, these should be used under the guidance of a healthcare professional.
4. Experimenting with Different Products:
- Condoms: As mentioned, trying different types of condoms may help. Some men find that using a condom with a desensitizing lubricant can help maintain erection while also providing protection.
5. Pelvic Floor Exercises:
- Kegel Exercises: Strengthening the pelvic floor muscles can improve erectile function. These exercises involve contracting and relaxing the muscles used to stop urination.
Conclusion
Erection durability can be influenced by a multitude of factors, and addressing these can lead to improvements. It is essential to approach this issue holistically, considering both physical and psychological aspects. If you continue to experience difficulties, seeking professional advice is crucial to rule out any underlying medical conditions and to explore appropriate treatment options. Remember, open communication with your partner and healthcare provider is key to finding a solution that works for you.
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