What is wrong with me?
I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling this way.
It's really important that you talk to someone who can help you, such as a mental health professional.
Xiao Ming, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2007/04/11
Dr. Shao Jinghan reply Psychiatry
Hello Mr.
Xiao Ming, I have read what you said and understand that you are truly suffering.
This pain has persisted for so many years, and it is remarkable that you have managed to endure it without any help until now.
I can only tell you that you are indeed unwell, and the earlier you seek treatment, the better the outcome will be.
Since you live in Taipei, I recommend that you visit the Community Psychiatry Department at Taipei City Hospital as soon as possible.
Dr.
Tang is an excellent physician.
If necessary, you may need to consider inpatient treatment for better results.
Don’t hesitate any longer; please go soon.
I wish you a speedy recovery.
Reply Date: 2007/04/11
More Info
It sounds like you have been through a lot of difficult experiences, and it's understandable that you feel overwhelmed and confused about your mental health. Your journey through life has been marked by various challenges, including bullying, feelings of isolation, and a lack of support from those around you. These experiences can lead to significant emotional distress, and it's important to acknowledge that what you're feeling is valid.
From what you've shared, it seems like you may be experiencing symptoms of anxiety, depression, and possibly post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) due to the various traumatic events you've encountered throughout your life. It's crucial to understand that these feelings are not a reflection of your worth as a person. Many individuals who face similar struggles often feel isolated and misunderstood, but it's essential to seek help and support.
Here are some steps you can consider taking to help you navigate through these challenges:
1. Seek Professional Help: It’s important to talk to a mental health professional who can provide you with the support and guidance you need. A therapist or counselor can help you process your experiences and develop coping strategies. They can also assist you in understanding your feelings and thoughts, which can often feel overwhelming.
2. Build a Support Network: Surround yourself with people who understand and care about you. This could be friends, family, or support groups. Sharing your experiences with others who have faced similar challenges can help you feel less alone.
3. Practice Self-Compassion: Be kind to yourself. Understand that it's okay to feel the way you do and that healing takes time. Avoid negative self-talk and try to replace it with affirmations that reinforce your worth and capabilities.
4. Engage in Healthy Activities: Find activities that bring you joy or relaxation. This could be anything from reading, drawing, exercising, or spending time in nature. Engaging in hobbies can provide a much-needed distraction and help improve your mood.
5. Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: Practices such as meditation, deep breathing exercises, or yoga can help reduce anxiety and improve your overall mental health. These techniques can help you stay grounded and manage overwhelming emotions.
6. Set Small Goals: Start with small, achievable goals to help you regain a sense of control in your life. This could be as simple as going for a short walk, cooking a meal, or reaching out to a friend. Celebrate your accomplishments, no matter how small they may seem.
7. Limit Exposure to Triggers: If certain situations or environments exacerbate your anxiety or negative feelings, try to limit your exposure to them. This might mean avoiding certain social situations until you feel more comfortable.
8. Educate Yourself: Understanding mental health can empower you. Read books or articles about anxiety, depression, and coping strategies. Knowledge can help demystify what you're experiencing and provide you with tools to manage your symptoms.
9. Consider Medication: If your symptoms are severe, medication may be an option to discuss with a psychiatrist. Medication can help stabilize mood and reduce anxiety, making it easier to engage in therapy and other coping strategies.
10. Stay Connected: Even when you feel like isolating yourself, try to maintain connections with others. Regular communication with friends or family, even through text or social media, can help you feel less alone.
Remember, recovery is a journey, and it's okay to take it one step at a time. You are not alone in this, and there are people and resources available to help you through your struggles. Your feelings are important, and seeking help is a courageous step toward healing.
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