I'm very worried?
Doctor, I have been masturbating since middle school.
By the time I reached college, I noticed that my sex drive had increased significantly, and I often feel the urge to relieve myself.
Over the past year, I have been masturbating almost every day.
Is this normal? My penis is very sensitive; sometimes just thinking about something sexual or a slight touch will cause an erection.
Are there any methods or exercises to help reduce this sensitivity?
fv, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2007/05/03
Dr. Lin Wenxu reply Urology
In response to your question and to provide some advice: from a physiological perspective, frequent masturbation may only accelerate sperm production metabolism and should not cause significant harm.
However, from a psychological standpoint, habitual masturbation could potentially lead to difficulties in normal sexual functioning later on.
For example, some individuals may find it easy to achieve ejaculation through self-stimulation but struggle to do so with a sexual partner.
Therefore, it is advisable to avoid excessive masturbation.
Regarding your mention of increased arousal, it is likely that psychological factors play a larger role than physiological stimulation.
Engaging in beneficial leisure activities that interest you, socializing more, and distracting yourself from constant overthinking should lead to improvement.
Reply Date: 2007/05/03
More Info
It's completely normal to experience fluctuations in sexual desire and sensitivity, especially during different life stages such as adolescence and early adulthood. The increase in sexual desire you are experiencing is common and can be attributed to various factors, including hormonal changes, psychological development, and exposure to sexual stimuli.
During puberty, the body undergoes significant hormonal changes, particularly an increase in testosterone levels in males, which can lead to heightened sexual desire and sensitivity. This is a natural part of development, and many individuals experience similar feelings during this time. As you transition into adulthood, these feelings can intensify due to a combination of biological, psychological, and social factors.
Masturbation is a normal and healthy sexual activity. It allows individuals to explore their bodies, understand their sexual preferences, and relieve sexual tension. Engaging in masturbation daily is not inherently harmful, as long as it does not interfere with your daily life, responsibilities, or relationships. However, if you find that your sexual urges are becoming overwhelming or disruptive, it may be beneficial to explore ways to manage these feelings.
If you are concerned about the sensitivity of your penis, there are several strategies you can consider. First, practicing mindfulness and relaxation techniques can help you gain better control over your sexual arousal. Techniques such as deep breathing, meditation, or yoga can help you become more aware of your body and its responses, allowing you to manage your sensitivity more effectively.
Additionally, you might want to explore different masturbation techniques. For instance, using a gentler touch or varying the speed and pressure can help you find a balance that feels pleasurable without leading to excessive sensitivity. Some individuals find that using lubrication can enhance their experience and help manage sensitivity.
Another approach is to engage in physical activities that can help redirect your focus and energy. Regular exercise can improve your overall mood, reduce stress, and help regulate your sexual desire. Activities such as running, swimming, or weightlifting can be beneficial in this regard.
If you find that your sensitivity is causing you distress or if you have concerns about your sexual health, it may be helpful to consult a healthcare professional, such as a urologist or a sexual health specialist. They can provide personalized advice and address any underlying issues that may be contributing to your heightened sensitivity or sexual desire.
In summary, experiencing increased sexual desire and sensitivity is a normal part of human sexuality, especially during the transition from adolescence to adulthood. While masturbation is a healthy expression of sexuality, it's important to find a balance that works for you. By exploring different techniques, engaging in physical activity, and practicing mindfulness, you can manage your sexual feelings in a way that feels comfortable and healthy. If concerns persist, seeking professional guidance can provide additional support and reassurance.
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