I do not appear like a normal person when I am not erect?
As mentioned in the topic, when I am not erect, my penis is shorter than others and does not hang down like most.
When I do get an erection, I also experience phimosis, and retracting it causes pain.
Is this a significant issue? Could it be related to my frequent masturbation? I am about to undergo military service physical examination and am worried about being laughed at.
I don't know what to do.
Kunrao Zhe, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2008/01/22
Dr. Lai Ronghao reply Urology
Hello: Don't be afraid of being laughed at; it's best to get checked at the hospital.
Reply Date: 2008/01/22
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Understanding concerns about penile size and related health issues is important, especially when preparing for military service. It's common for individuals to have worries about their bodies, particularly during significant life transitions such as entering military service. Let's break down your concerns and provide some insights into the medical aspects involved.
Firstly, it's essential to understand that penile size varies significantly among individuals. Factors such as genetics, hormonal levels, and overall health can influence size and shape. The perception of "normal" size can often be skewed by societal standards or media portrayals, which may not reflect reality. If you feel that your size is significantly different from what you perceive as normal, it might be beneficial to consult a healthcare professional who can provide reassurance and guidance.
Regarding the issue of phimosis, which you mentioned as "包莖" (a condition where the foreskin cannot be easily retracted), this can lead to discomfort during erections and may cause pain when attempting to retract the foreskin. Phimosis can be a common condition, especially in younger males, and it can sometimes resolve on its own as one matures. However, if it causes significant pain or discomfort, it is advisable to seek medical advice. A healthcare provider can assess the situation and may recommend treatments ranging from topical steroid creams to surgical options, such as circumcision, if necessary.
Your concern about frequent masturbation is also valid. While masturbation is a normal sexual activity, excessive or aggressive practices can lead to temporary sensitivity or discomfort. If you are experiencing pain during erections or retraction of the foreskin, it may be worth evaluating your technique and frequency. Moderation is key, and if you notice persistent pain or discomfort, it would be wise to consult a healthcare professional.
As for the upcoming military service and the associated physical examination, it's important to remember that medical professionals conducting these assessments are trained to handle a wide range of health concerns. If you have any medical conditions or concerns, it is best to be honest during your examination. If you have been diagnosed with phimosis or any other condition, having documentation from a healthcare provider can be beneficial. This documentation can help explain your situation and may provide grounds for any necessary accommodations.
In terms of managing anxiety about your body and the potential for being judged, it's crucial to focus on your overall health and well-being rather than comparisons with others. Many individuals have similar concerns, and it's a normal part of growing up. Engaging in open conversations with trusted friends or family members about your feelings can also help alleviate some of the stress.
Lastly, if you are feeling overwhelmed by these concerns, consider speaking with a mental health professional. They can provide support and strategies to manage anxiety related to body image and the pressures of military service.
In summary, while concerns about penile size and related health issues are common, it is essential to approach them with a focus on health and well-being. Consulting with healthcare professionals can provide clarity and reassurance, and being open during your military examination can help ensure that your health needs are addressed appropriately. Remember, you are not alone in these feelings, and seeking help is a positive step towards managing your concerns.
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