Overcoming Premature Ejaculation: Seeking Solutions and Effective Treatments - Urology

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I have a problem with premature ejaculation!


I have been experiencing premature ejaculation for a long time.
I wanted to see a doctor, but I felt uncomfortable because there were young female nurses around.
Eventually, I lost the courage to go back.
One day, I came across a local anesthetic called "Lidocaine" online.
Following the information I found, I went to the pharmacy and indeed found it, but they said I had to order a minimum of 100 vials! I purchased Lidocaine Injection 2% with the following composition: Lidocaine HCl 20 mg, Water for Injection added to make 1 ml.
However, after bringing it home and putting it in a spray bottle to apply on the glans, I did not feel any anesthetic effect or improvement in duration.
Now I have 99 vials sitting around.
Could it be that I used it incorrectly or bought the wrong product? Additionally, I heard that there are over-the-counter "anesthetic creams" available, and the pharmacy mentioned they have "Lidocaine" 5%.
If I dissolve it in water and put it in a spray bottle, will it be effective? Are there any other liquid products available that can effectively numb the area? I feel that applying a cream directly is unsanitary and raises concerns about infection!

Taipei A-Yu, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2008/03/26

Dr. Xu Weikai reply Urology


Taipei Ah Yu: Hello, generally, the local anesthetic we use is in the form of a gel, similar to an ointment, with a composition similar to the Lidocaine you purchased, usually around 4%.
This formulation adheres better to the glans and provides more effective results.
If you find multiple applications of ointment unsanitary, you can buy single-use packets, which contain about 1-2CC of product for one-time use.
The product you bought is intended for injection use, and its effectiveness when applied topically is very poor.

Note: This type of medication is generally used for subcutaneous anesthesia during surgical procedures for pain relief.
If used for intravenous injection, it must be handled with extreme caution, as it can become a cardiac medication, potentially leading to heart-related issues, and in severe cases, can cause cardiac arrest and death.

Additionally, when using this type of medication, it is typically applied 20-60 minutes before sexual activity to ensure numbness.
It is essential to wipe off all the ointment; otherwise, it may be absorbed through the vagina during intercourse, making it difficult for the female partner to become aroused.
Excessive absorption can lead to side effects such as headaches in some women.
If you find it troublesome, you can wear a condom after application to enhance the medication's effect.
There are many such medications available, and most pharmacies will have them.
You can openly state that you need it for sexual activity, and they will provide you with the most appropriate product.
As for the other 99 vials of injectable medication, you can return them to the pharmacy or a general clinic to see if they are willing to purchase them.
Generally, large hospitals are hesitant to buy them due to concerns about counterfeit products.
If you have any further questions or need more details, feel free to ask, and we can discuss and research further.

Sincerely,
Director of Urology,
Taitung Hospital, Department of Health, Executive Yuan
Hsu Wei-Kai

Reply Date: 2008/03/26

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Premature ejaculation (PE) is a common sexual dysfunction that affects many men, and it can lead to significant distress and relationship issues. The good news is that there are various treatment options available, ranging from behavioral techniques to pharmacological interventions.
Firstly, it’s important to understand that PE can be classified into two categories: lifelong (primary) and acquired (secondary). Lifelong PE is present from the first sexual experience, while acquired PE develops after a period of normal sexual function. The causes of PE can be psychological, such as anxiety or stress, or physiological, such as hormonal imbalances or neurological issues.

In your case, it seems you have been exploring the use of lidocaine, a local anesthetic, to help manage your symptoms. Lidocaine can indeed be effective in delaying ejaculation when used correctly. However, the method of application is crucial. Simply spraying lidocaine on the glans (the head of the penis) may not provide the desired effect if it is not applied in the right concentration or if it does not remain in contact with the skin long enough to take effect.
The 2% lidocaine injection you purchased is typically used for medical procedures and may not be the best option for treating PE. Instead, lidocaine is often available in topical formulations specifically designed for sexual health, such as creams or sprays that are intended for this purpose. These products usually contain a lower concentration of lidocaine and are formulated to be safe for use on sensitive skin.

If you are considering using a 5% lidocaine cream, it is essential to follow the instructions provided by the manufacturer. Mixing it with water and using it in a spray bottle is not recommended, as this could dilute the effectiveness and alter the intended use of the product. Instead, apply the cream directly to the area as directed, allowing it to absorb for the recommended time before engaging in sexual activity.
In addition to topical anesthetics, other treatment options for PE include:
1. Behavioral Techniques: Techniques such as the "stop-start" method or the "squeeze" technique can help you gain better control over ejaculation. These methods involve practicing control during sexual activity and can be effective over time.

2. Counseling or Therapy: If anxiety or psychological factors contribute to your PE, speaking with a therapist or counselor can be beneficial. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) has been shown to help many men with PE.

3. Medications: Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), such as paroxetine or sertraline, are sometimes prescribed off-label for PE. These medications can help delay ejaculation and improve control.

4. Desensitizing Products: In addition to lidocaine, there are over-the-counter desensitizing sprays and creams specifically designed for men with PE. These products can help reduce sensitivity and prolong the duration of intercourse.

5. Pelvic Floor Exercises: Strengthening the pelvic floor muscles through exercises (like Kegels) can improve control over ejaculation.

It’s understandable to feel apprehensive about discussing sensitive topics like PE with healthcare providers, especially in a clinical setting. However, it’s crucial to seek professional advice to explore the most appropriate treatment options for your situation. Many healthcare providers are accustomed to discussing sexual health issues and can provide a safe and confidential environment for you to express your concerns.

In conclusion, while lidocaine can be a helpful tool in managing premature ejaculation, it’s essential to use it correctly and consider other treatment options that may be more effective. Consulting with a healthcare professional who specializes in sexual health can provide you with the guidance and support you need to address this issue effectively.

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