Loss of Pleasure During Ejaculation: Causes and Solutions - Urology

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The moment of ejaculation is becoming increasingly less pleasurable?


Hello, doctor.
I have been masturbating quite frequently (2 to 3 times a week), and I've noticed that towards the end, I no longer experience the same pleasurable sensation at the moment of ejaculation.
Will continuing this way affect my sexual function in the future? After taking a break for a while, can I regain the previous level of pleasure? Thank you.

Nìmíng zhě, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2008/07/05

Dr. Xu Weikai reply Urology


Anonymous: Hello, the relationship between masturbation and sexual function is perceived differently in Western and Traditional Chinese Medicine.
Western medicine believes the impact is minimal, while Traditional Chinese Medicine considers it to have a significant effect.
Long-term masturbation, according to Western medicine, may lead to a higher chance of experiencing temporary premature ejaculation during actual sexual intercourse.
As for the decrease in pleasure, it is attributed to the repetitive nature of self-stimulation; over time, it becomes more routine, leading to quicker sessions and a natural decline in sensation.
If there are any unclear points, feel free to ask again for further discussion and research.
Department of Urology, Taitung Hospital, Ministry of Health and Welfare, Dr.
Hsu Wei-Kai.

Reply Date: 2008/07/05

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The phenomenon you're experiencing, often referred to as "loss of pleasure during ejaculation," can be attributed to several factors, both physiological and psychological. It's important to understand that sexual pleasure is a complex interplay of physical sensations, emotional connection, and mental state.
Firstly, frequent masturbation, especially if done in a hurried or mechanical manner, can lead to a temporary decrease in pleasure. This is sometimes due to desensitization of the nerve endings involved in sexual arousal and ejaculation. When the body becomes accustomed to a certain frequency or style of stimulation, it may take more intense or varied stimulation to achieve the same level of pleasure. This is not uncommon and can happen to anyone who engages in frequent sexual activity, whether through masturbation or intercourse.

In addition to physical factors, psychological aspects play a significant role in sexual pleasure. Stress, anxiety, or even feelings of guilt associated with masturbation can diminish the overall experience. If you find yourself preoccupied with thoughts about your sexual performance or the frequency of your activities, this can detract from your enjoyment.
Moreover, the concept of "performance anxiety" can also come into play. If you are concerned about your ability to achieve pleasure or are worried about potential long-term effects on your sexual function, this anxiety can create a cycle that further reduces enjoyment.
As for your concerns about long-term effects on sexual function, it's generally understood that taking breaks from frequent sexual activity can help restore sensitivity and pleasure. Allowing your body some time to reset can be beneficial. During this period, focusing on other aspects of your life, such as physical fitness, mental well-being, and emotional health, can also contribute positively to your sexual health.

If you decide to take a break from masturbation, you may find that your pleasure returns over time. Engaging in different forms of sexual expression, such as exploring intimacy with a partner or varying your techniques during masturbation, can also help rekindle your enjoyment.
In summary, while frequent masturbation can lead to temporary changes in pleasure, these changes are often reversible. Taking a break, addressing any underlying psychological factors, and exploring different forms of sexual expression can help restore your sexual pleasure. If you continue to experience difficulties or have concerns about your sexual health, it may be beneficial to consult a healthcare professional or a therapist specializing in sexual health for personalized advice and support.

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