Premature Ejaculation: Causes and Solutions - Urology

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Is it premature ejaculation?


Dear Dr.
Liu,
During intimate moments with my girlfriend, I often experience a significant amount of semen leakage, which ends up covering her body.
The leaked semen is quite watery, but my erection and ejaculation after climax are normal.
How can I improve this issue? Thank you very much for your time.

Kaiwen, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2001/12/27

Dr. Liu Jianting reply Urology


Don't worry, it's not premature ejaculation; it's "lubrication." During sexual arousal and passion, both men and women secrete mucus that serves a lubricating function to facilitate the next steps in the process.
I recommend a book titled "About Sex" published by Tianxia.

Reply Date: 2001/12/27

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Premature ejaculation (PE) is a common sexual dysfunction that affects many men at some point in their lives. It is characterized by ejaculation that occurs sooner than desired, either before or shortly after penetration, leading to distress for both partners. Understanding the causes and potential solutions for premature ejaculation can help individuals address this issue effectively.


Causes of Premature Ejaculation
1. Psychological Factors: Anxiety, stress, and relationship issues can significantly impact sexual performance. Performance anxiety, in particular, can lead to a cycle of premature ejaculation, where the fear of not being able to control ejaculation exacerbates the problem.

2. Biological Factors: Hormonal imbalances, neurotransmitter levels, and certain medical conditions can contribute to PE. For instance, low serotonin levels have been linked to increased sensitivity and quicker ejaculation.

3. Genetic Factors: Some studies suggest that genetic predispositions may play a role in the likelihood of experiencing PE.

4. Medical Conditions: Conditions such as prostatitis, thyroid problems, or other health issues can also lead to premature ejaculation.

5. Lifestyle Factors: Substance abuse, particularly alcohol and recreational drugs, can affect sexual performance and lead to premature ejaculation.


Solutions and Management Strategies
1. Behavioral Techniques:
- Start-Stop Technique: This involves stimulating the penis until you feel close to ejaculation, then stopping until the urge decreases. This can help you gain better control over your ejaculation.

- Squeeze Technique: Similar to the start-stop method, this involves squeezing the base of the penis when you feel close to ejaculation, which can help delay it.

2. Pelvic Floor Exercises: Strengthening the pelvic floor muscles through Kegel exercises can improve control over ejaculation. These exercises involve repeatedly contracting and relaxing the muscles that control urination.

3. Desensitizing Products: Over-the-counter creams or sprays that contain numbing agents can reduce sensitivity and help delay ejaculation. However, it's essential to use these products as directed to avoid any adverse effects.

4. Counseling and Therapy: If psychological factors are contributing to premature ejaculation, speaking with a therapist or counselor can be beneficial. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) can help address anxiety and improve sexual confidence.

5. Medication: In some cases, doctors may prescribe selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) or other medications that can help delay ejaculation. Always consult a healthcare professional before starting any medication.

6. Communication with Partner: Open communication with your partner about sexual preferences and concerns can alleviate anxiety and improve the overall sexual experience. Understanding each other’s needs can foster a more relaxed environment.

7. Lifestyle Changes: Reducing alcohol consumption, quitting smoking, and managing stress through exercise or mindfulness can improve overall sexual health and performance.


Conclusion
Premature ejaculation is a manageable condition, and there are various strategies to help improve control and enhance sexual satisfaction. If the issue persists or causes significant distress, it is advisable to consult a healthcare professional for a thorough evaluation and tailored treatment options. Remember, sexual health is an essential aspect of overall well-being, and seeking help is a positive step towards improvement.

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