Struggling with Urological Concerns: Seeking Help and Answers - Urology

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I see that her issue is that her erection is 1 cm longer than mine, and mine is quite thin.
I live in Hsinchu.
Can you help me find a doctor who can address my problems? I've seen five urologists, and they always say everything is normal, which leaves me feeling helpless when I leave the hospital.
I haven't developed since I was four years old; my Adam's apple is not very noticeable, and it's quite flat.
I struggle with feelings of embarrassment, and when I show the doctor, hearing that everything is normal makes me wonder why.
Every time I go, I can't resolve the first issue, which makes me lose the motivation to ask other questions.
I also feel like I don't fully empty my bladder and have to urinate multiple times, but I haven't sought medical attention for these issues.
Please help me.

Wu Jie, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2009/04/19

Dr. Xu Weikai reply Urology


Hello, you can start by testing male hormones, semen analysis, and testicular size for an objective assessment.
If there is indeed a deficiency, you can supplement the lacking aspects.
Modern medicine can address many issues.
Note: It is recommended to visit a medical center, as many small to medium-sized hospitals may not be able to perform the necessary tests.
If there are any unclear points, feel free to ask again, and we can further discuss and research together.
Department of Urology, Taitung Hospital, Ministry of Health and Welfare, Dr.
Hsu Wei-Kai.

Reply Date: 2009/04/19

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It sounds like you are experiencing significant distress regarding your urological concerns, and I want to assure you that seeking help is a crucial step in addressing your issues. Urological health can encompass a wide range of conditions, and it’s important to find a healthcare provider who can take your concerns seriously and provide the appropriate care.

Firstly, regarding your specific concerns about size and development, it’s important to understand that there is a wide range of what is considered "normal" in terms of genital size and development. Many individuals may feel insecure about their bodies, especially when comparing themselves to others. However, it’s essential to focus on your overall health and well-being rather than just physical attributes.
Given your history of not experiencing normal development since childhood, it may be beneficial to consult with a urologist who specializes in developmental issues. A urologist can conduct a thorough evaluation, which may include physical examinations, hormone level testing, and possibly imaging studies to assess your anatomy and any underlying conditions that may be affecting your development.
In your case, it sounds like you have already seen multiple urologists who have reassured you that everything is normal, but you still feel unsatisfied with the answers you’ve received. This could indicate that you need a second opinion or a specialist who focuses on developmental urology or even endocrinology, as hormonal imbalances can sometimes affect physical development.
Additionally, you mentioned issues with urination, such as feeling like you cannot fully empty your bladder. This is a common concern and can be related to various conditions, including urinary tract infections, bladder dysfunction, or even anatomical issues. It’s crucial to address these symptoms with a healthcare provider who can help you find a solution.
In Hsinchu, you might want to consider visiting a reputable medical center or a university hospital where specialists in urology and endocrinology are available. They often have more resources and experience dealing with complex cases. You can also look for clinics that focus on men's health, as they may provide a more comprehensive approach to your concerns.

When you visit a new doctor, it may help to prepare a list of your symptoms, concerns, and any questions you have. Being open and honest about your feelings and experiences can help the doctor understand your situation better and provide you with the care you need.
Lastly, it’s important to remember that you are not alone in this journey. Many individuals experience similar feelings of embarrassment or insecurity regarding their bodies. Seeking support from mental health professionals or support groups can also be beneficial in addressing the emotional aspects of your concerns.

In summary, I encourage you to seek out a urologist who specializes in developmental issues and to be persistent in finding a healthcare provider who will listen to your concerns and work with you to find solutions. Your health and well-being are paramount, and you deserve to receive the care and support you need.

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