Recurring nightmares
Hello, doctor.
I have been suffering from anxiety for many years and have undergone psychological counseling and taken medication for a long time.
However, I stopped taking my medication 15 weeks ago after discovering that I am 17 weeks pregnant.
I was afraid of the potential effects of the medication on the fetus, so I discontinued it.
Since then, I often feel startled, have almost daily nightmares, and tend to sleep excessively until noon.
I also find it difficult to concentrate on many things and experience dizziness.
I would like to know how I can improve these issues, as I am hesitant to return for a follow-up appointment due to concerns about medication and the opinions of my in-laws regarding my mental health treatment.
My husband and in-laws are unaware of my medical history, and they hold very traditional views.
For instance, I must wait for my father-in-law or husband to return before I can eat, even when I am hungry.
I am not allowed to touch my belly, as my mother-in-law believes it is harmful to the fetus.
I am experiencing severe morning sickness and have difficulty eating certain foods, but my mother-in-law insists that my eating habits will affect the child's future behavior, such as being picky or slow.
I sometimes try to communicate my feelings through my husband, but he tends to side with his parents, believing that their experiences make them right.
When I express a different opinion, I am labeled as rude or difficult, and my emotional dissatisfaction is dismissed as prenatal depression.
The psychologist I previously saw has left the hospital, and there are currently no counselors available.
I feel panic every day.
Is this truly prenatal depression? Thank you for taking the time to respond.
Mao, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2009/06/01
Dr. Li Zhengfeng reply Psychiatry
Hello: First of all, welcome to your correspondence.
Patients with depression or anxiety disorders are prone to relapse under stress.
Pregnancy is a stressful event, so many pregnant women experience emotional issues.
Since medications can affect fetal development, doctors often recommend discontinuing medication.
Instead, they suggest non-pharmacological treatments such as psychotherapy or recreational therapy.
I recommend that you seek another therapist for counseling or engage in more recreational activities to alleviate symptoms.
Wishing you a speedy recovery.
Thank you.
Reply Date: 2009/06/01
More Info
Managing anxiety and nightmares during pregnancy can be particularly challenging, especially for someone with a history of anxiety disorders. It’s understandable that you are feeling overwhelmed, especially after discontinuing medication due to concerns about the potential effects on your developing baby. Here are some strategies and insights that may help you navigate this difficult time.
Firstly, it’s important to recognize that pregnancy can be a significant source of stress and anxiety for many women. The hormonal changes, physical discomforts, and the anticipation of becoming a parent can all contribute to heightened feelings of anxiety. Additionally, your past experiences with anxiety and the pressure from family dynamics can exacerbate these feelings. It’s crucial to acknowledge that what you are experiencing is valid and that seeking help is a positive step.
Since you have stopped taking medication, it’s essential to explore non-pharmacological interventions to manage your anxiety and nightmares. Here are some strategies you might consider:
1. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): If possible, seek out a therapist who specializes in CBT. This form of therapy can help you identify and challenge negative thought patterns and develop coping strategies to manage anxiety. Even if your previous therapist has left, there may be other professionals available who can provide support.
2. Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: Practices such as mindfulness meditation, deep breathing exercises, and progressive muscle relaxation can help reduce anxiety and improve sleep quality. These techniques can help ground you in the present moment and alleviate feelings of panic.
3. Sleep Hygiene: Establishing a calming bedtime routine can help improve your sleep quality. This might include activities such as reading, taking a warm bath, or practicing gentle yoga. Ensure your sleep environment is comfortable and conducive to rest.
4. Physical Activity: Engaging in regular, moderate exercise can help alleviate anxiety and improve mood. Activities like walking, swimming, or prenatal yoga can be beneficial. However, always consult with your healthcare provider before starting any new exercise regimen during pregnancy.
5. Nutrition: Eating a balanced diet can have a significant impact on your mood and energy levels. Focus on consuming nutrient-rich foods that support both your health and your baby’s development. Foods rich in omega-3 fatty acids, whole grains, and plenty of fruits and vegetables can be particularly beneficial.
6. Support System: It’s vital to have a support system in place. If you feel comfortable, consider discussing your feelings with your partner or trusted friends. Open communication can help alleviate some of the pressure you feel from family expectations.
7. Journaling: Writing down your thoughts and feelings can be a therapeutic way to process your emotions. It can also help you identify triggers for your anxiety and develop strategies to cope with them.
8. Education: Sometimes, fear stems from the unknown. Educating yourself about pregnancy, childbirth, and parenting can help alleviate some anxiety. Consider attending prenatal classes or reading books on the subject.
Regarding your concerns about your in-laws and their opinions, it’s essential to establish boundaries that prioritize your mental health and well-being. While it can be challenging to navigate family dynamics, remember that your feelings and needs are valid. If possible, try to communicate openly with your partner about your feelings and the importance of mutual support during this time.
Lastly, if your anxiety continues to escalate or if you experience symptoms of depression, it’s crucial to seek professional help. Many healthcare providers understand the complexities of managing mental health during pregnancy and can work with you to find a safe and effective treatment plan.
In summary, managing anxiety and nightmares during pregnancy requires a multifaceted approach that includes self-care, support, and professional guidance. Remember that you are not alone in this journey, and seeking help is a sign of strength. Prioritize your mental health, and don’t hesitate to reach out for support when needed.
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