Penile issues
Hello Dr.
Lai, I have been troubled by an issue for many years and would like to seek your advice.
I have a slight curvature of the penis and a condition of phimosis (the foreskin can retract over the glans during an erection).
My wife has mentioned that she experiences pain during intercourse, and she has noted that this did not occur when she was with her previous boyfriend.
She believes that my penile curvature and phimosis are the causes of her discomfort.
I would like to ask you, Dr.
Lai, whether penile curvature and phimosis can indeed lead to pain during intercourse.
Additionally, I always ensure that the vagina is adequately lubricated before penetration, and I have also tried using lubricants, but the improvement has been limited.
Xiao Hong, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2010/04/16
Dr. Lai Ronghao reply Urology
Regarding phimosis, it does not necessarily cause pain during intercourse.
Whether penile curvature results in pain during intercourse varies from person to person.
Surgical correction is only required if the curvature angle exceeds 30 degrees.
Reply Date: 2010/04/16
More Info
Penile curvature and conditions such as phimosis (the inability to retract the foreskin) can indeed contribute to discomfort during intercourse, both for the individual and their partner. Understanding the mechanics of these conditions is essential in addressing the pain experienced during sexual activity.
Penile Curvature: A slight curvature of the penis is relatively common and can be a normal anatomical variation. However, if the curvature is pronounced or causes discomfort during penetration, it may lead to painful intercourse (dyspareunia) for the partner. The angle of penetration can create pressure on the vaginal walls, which may not be aligned with the curvature of the penis. This misalignment can lead to discomfort or pain during intercourse, especially if the curvature is directed towards the partner's vaginal wall.
Phimosis: Phimosis can also contribute to discomfort during intercourse. If the foreskin cannot be fully retracted, it may lead to increased friction or pressure during penetration, which can be painful for both partners. In some cases, the foreskin may become tight, causing discomfort during erections and sexual activity.
Impact on Intercourse: The combination of penile curvature and phimosis can create a situation where the mechanics of intercourse are altered. If the penis does not enter the vagina smoothly due to curvature, or if the foreskin is tight, it can lead to painful experiences. Additionally, if the partner is not adequately aroused or if there is insufficient lubrication, the risk of discomfort increases.
Addressing the Issue: Here are some potential solutions and considerations:
1. Consultation with a Specialist: It is advisable to consult a urologist or a sexual health specialist. They can assess the degree of curvature and the condition of the foreskin. In some cases, surgical options such as circumcision or a procedure to correct the curvature may be recommended.
2. Use of Lubrication: While you mentioned that lubrication has had limited effects, it is crucial to ensure that the right type of lubricant is used. Water-based or silicone-based lubricants can reduce friction and enhance comfort during intercourse. Experimenting with different types may yield better results.
3. Positioning: Certain sexual positions may alleviate discomfort. Positions that allow for shallower penetration or better alignment with the curvature of the penis may help reduce pain. Communication with your partner about what feels comfortable is essential.
4. Gradual Approach: Taking time to ensure both partners are adequately aroused can help. Engaging in extended foreplay may enhance natural lubrication and comfort.
5. Pelvic Floor Exercises: Strengthening the pelvic floor muscles through exercises (like Kegel exercises) can improve control and comfort during intercourse.
6. Psychological Factors: Sometimes, anxiety or stress related to sexual performance can exacerbate physical discomfort. Counseling or sex therapy may be beneficial in addressing any psychological components contributing to the pain.
In conclusion, while penile curvature and phimosis can contribute to discomfort during intercourse, there are various approaches to manage and potentially resolve these issues. Seeking professional medical advice is crucial for a tailored treatment plan that addresses both physical and emotional aspects of sexual health. Open communication with your partner about these concerns can also foster a supportive environment as you navigate this sensitive issue together.
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