Should I Still Be Concerned About Urological Health After Risky Encounter? - Urology

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Is there still a need for concern?


Hello Doctor, I previously had a one-night stand where I performed oral sex on a woman (1).
During the process, I did not swallow any secretions and immediately spit it out and rinsed my mouth.
After that, I had protected vaginal intercourse.
However, after taking a shower, I noticed a pimple at the base of my penis that seemed to have ruptured (less than 0.5 cm with blood crusting).
(2) I was a bit worried, so I went to get an RC-PTR test eight days later at my own expense, which showed no virus.
The urologist said there was no need to worry anymore, but I am still concerned.
I called the CDC's 0800 AIDS prevention hotline and spoke to four different healthcare professionals, who gave me four different responses.
Some said the risk was very low, others said the risk was significant, some mentioned that even without a condom the probability is still in the thousands, while others said that the RC-PTR test is not accurate at all.
Some mentioned that with a condom, the main concern should be other STDs rather than HIV, and others said that as long as a condom was used, the risk is very low even if the partner is HIV positive.
Therefore, I would like to ask the doctor: 1.
Are the actions described in points 1 and 2 likely to result in infection? 2.
Is the accuracy of the RC-PTR test reliable? 3.
Does my behavior indicate that I have "HIV anxiety"? Thank you, Doctor.

Xiao Yang, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2011/11/17

Dr. Xu Weikai reply Urology


Xiao Yang: Hello.
1.
Any contact with bodily fluids carries a risk of infection.
2.
If there are open wounds, the risk is even higher.
3.
Regarding RC-PTR, I'm not sure.
Testing after 8 days may be too early; some individuals may only test positive after 3 months.
4.
I won't comment on whether there is a fear of intimacy, but I can say that any exchange of bodily fluids can lead to infection, and the risk is higher if there are wounds involved.
Recommendation: Please retest after 3 months for HIV, syphilis, hepatitis B, etc.
If there are any unclear points, feel free to ask again, and we can discuss and research further.
This message is from the Department of Urology, Taitung Hospital, Ministry of Health and Welfare, expressing concern for you.
Response by Dr.
Hsu Wei-Kai, Chief of Urology.

Reply Date: 2011/11/17

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After engaging in risky sexual encounters, it's completely normal to feel concerned about your urological health and the potential for sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Let's break down your concerns and provide clarity based on medical knowledge.

1. Risk Assessment of Your Encounters:
- You mentioned engaging in oral sex without swallowing and then having protected vaginal intercourse. Generally, using a condom significantly reduces the risk of transmitting HIV and other STIs. However, oral sex can still pose some risk, especially if there are open sores or cuts in the mouth or on the genitals. The small lesion you described at the base of your penis could potentially be a concern if it was exposed to any infectious fluids. However, the risk of contracting HIV from oral sex is considerably lower than from vaginal or anal intercourse, especially when a condom is used during penetrative sex.

- The fact that you had a small lesion that bled could indicate a risk for other STIs, particularly if the lesion came into contact with any infected fluids. However, the likelihood of contracting HIV from this specific encounter remains low, especially since you did not swallow any fluids.

2. Reliability of the RC-PTR Test:
- The RC-PTR (Rapid HIV Test) is generally considered reliable for detecting HIV, especially when performed at least 8 weeks after potential exposure. However, the standard recommendation is to retest at 3 months for a conclusive result, as this is the window period for HIV testing. If your test was negative at 8 days, it is likely accurate, but it is prudent to follow up with another test at the 3-month mark for peace of mind.

- It's important to note that no test is 100% accurate, and the reliability can depend on various factors, including the timing of the test and the specific test used. If you have concerns about the accuracy of the test, discussing this with a healthcare provider can provide more personalized guidance.

3. Understanding "Fear of HIV" (HIV Anxiety):
- Your ongoing concerns about potential HIV infection could be classified as "HIV anxiety" or "HIV phobia." This is a common response among individuals who have had risky encounters or who are aware of the implications of STIs. It's essential to recognize that while being cautious about your health is important, excessive worry can lead to anxiety and stress that may affect your overall well-being.

- If you find that your anxiety is overwhelming or affecting your daily life, it may be beneficial to speak with a mental health professional. They can help you process your feelings and develop coping strategies.

4. Next Steps for Your Health:
- Continue monitoring your health and any symptoms you may experience. If you notice any unusual symptoms, such as persistent sores, unusual discharge, or pain, seek medical attention promptly.

- Consider getting tested for other STIs, as the risk of infections like chlamydia, gonorrhea, and syphilis can be higher with unprotected oral and vaginal sex. Regular screenings are a proactive approach to maintaining sexual health.

- Maintain open communication with any sexual partners about health and testing, as this can help reduce anxiety and promote safer practices in the future.

In conclusion, while your concerns are valid, the risk of contracting HIV from the described encounters is low, especially given the protective measures taken. Regular testing and open communication about sexual health are key components of maintaining your well-being. If anxiety persists, consider seeking support from a healthcare provider or mental health professional.

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